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deilann

@[email protected]

i am a math

also a roving pack of wander-lusting dogs unsure where they last picked up the scent trail, which makes not being in the woods difficult

pronouns he/him; il/le - see pronoun pages linked for more information

don't capitalize deilann

hornyposting & puppyposting: @deilann

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@deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

PSA: ban/block evading and hell just in general contacting people who have clearly stated on multiple occasions that they do not wish to speak to you or be contacted by you is never okay

it is, in fact, harassment

@JessTheUnstill@infosec.exchange avatar JessTheUnstill , to random

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    deilann ,
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    @JessTheUnstill

    i needed to buy headphones a while back in an area where the only real choice was a walmart

    five dollar headphones

    locked up

    it's impossible for product loss to be the reasoning on so many of these

    i've seen $1 items locked up

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    just my regular reminder that while opponents of people having a social safety net may talk about welfare payments as just throwing away money, actually, programs like food stamps, direct cash payments, and daycare assistance don't send money "into the void" - on top of yanno, letting people continue to stay alive, all that money goes directly back into the economy because those who receive benefits kinda have to spend them

    it's when we give money back to the wealthy that it vanishes from the economy because hoarding wealth is actually bad for a functioning society...

    and economy

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    talking about small dick energy and Napoleon syndrome is fucked up

    because like sure someone who is insecure about their masculinity can be toxic as shit

    but what the fuck like

    "someone is insecure about their masculinity so i'm going to call their masculinity into question based on physical attributes they can't control and also then as collateral call into question the masculinity of others who are smaller as well" is one fucked vicious cycle

    stop

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    wasps i promise i respect your territory and am leaving you don't need to follow me to check for five blocks you really don't it's okay i'm leaving

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    i just zoned out thinking about if mastodon updates it so that users can change their username the catsalad army could change all their names en masse and then activate but what would be goal be there's already sunbeams at home

    A fluffy maine coon kitten upside down with attack paws up in a cat tree basking in a sunbeam on a beautiful day intently staring up
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    @bunnybeam one catsalad is @catsalad but there is an army

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    @bunnybeam @catsalad i'm unsure only catsalad would know

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    hm tomorrow is national boyfriend day i wonder if my boyfriend will be a boyfriend tomorrow

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    i will state it again and again

    i'm against puberty blockers for kids

    because to even be considered for blockers, a kid almost certainly has been socially living as their gender for years and deserves to go through puberty alongside their peers

    i'm pro HRT

    the early effects of HRT are essentially all reversable and essentially every kid put on hormone blockers ends up put on HRT

    robbing kids of having their adolescence alongside their peers is wrong

    (this does mean puberty blockers for trans masc kids so they can wait a couple years to go alongside the other boys. but you get my point)

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    stop fucking blaming testosterone for violence there is literally no conclusive scientific evidence that testosterone increases aggression or violent behavior. some individual studies find higher testosterone does but despite having been heavily researched (including a study i participated in!) the meta analyses cannot establish a link between testosterone and violence or aggression

    stop

    stop

    stop fucking demonizing me

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    @JoscelynTransient it's also an incredibly uncomfortable thing to say when a huge swath of trans women are unable to access HRT.

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    rather than "i don't have anything to hide, why should i use encryption" it should be "why am i expected to air my laundry in the middle of the highway that doesn't seem safe"

    @JessTheUnstill@infosec.exchange avatar JessTheUnstill , to random

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    @JessTheUnstill i was like wait how could two pizzas feed more than three people and then remembered "oh right, people without celiac can get pizzas in varying sizes"

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    this is what the united states looks like if you use a more realistic projection than mercator

    an map of alaska in red rotated so that the flat part is on the top and then flipped horizontally. rotation tools are visible as is a layer guideline. Russia is grey on the bottom and Canada is attached to the top. For some ungodly reason there is a yellow triangle on the upper left and upper right corner.
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    @pierogiburo@tech.lgbt avatar pierogiburo , to random

    kris

    deilann ,
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    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    fedi

    two weimaraner dogs with human hands baking a cake (wegman's dogs from a sesame street skit)
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    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    you'd be amazed at how well sodi can pass as not-cursed sometimes

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    would you rather be stuck alone in a server room with a

    @endali@tech.lgbt avatar endali , to random

    after gazing at and reboosting photos of me

    i come to the conclusion that im quite hot and pretty i think

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    @endali@tech.lgbt avatar endali , to random

    :neocat_floof:

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    @endali hi kris i just wanted to let you know that i've been engaging less in general right now but i've seen a lot of your stuff lately and really really liked it and also you're cute so there

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    chat what should kio get for birthday breakfast

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    going to not feed him until fedi helps

    happy birthday

    @endali@tech.lgbt avatar endali , to random

    evil

    A silver maine coon, standing on the side of cat tree, looking at the camera
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    @endali kris that cat has beaten you at goth

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    @endali it's okay your goth levels are very healthy!! i iddn't even know it was possible for a cat to have such high goth levels

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    any advice on interacting with the parents of a partner who isn't out as trans to them and having to deadname and misgender your partner while ADHD??

    @pierogiburo@tech.lgbt avatar pierogiburo , to random

    those first couple of days after a trip when you're kinda melancholic, but also determined to improve your life

    deilann ,
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    @endali @pierogiburo evvy post that makes me say lizard

    @JessTheUnstill@infosec.exchange avatar JessTheUnstill , to random

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    @catsalad @JessTheUnstill such a good aesthetic

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    @JessTheUnstill

    i think you mean put effort into making it look awesome

    @kayla @catsalad

    deilann ,
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    @JessTheUnstill

    to be fair, no one is sure why i am allowed to do CSS crimes

    @kayla @catsalad

    julia , to random

    "oh, you know, luna"
    do you have any idea how little that narrows it down??

    deilann ,
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    @julia

    "luna on fedi"
    somehow you've managed to increase the number of possibilities

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    yassie can have a hellthread, as a treat

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    gay and eepy

    deilann OP ,
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    @endali eepay

    @endali@tech.lgbt avatar endali , to random

    what the fuck, how are we about to start april already

    deilann ,
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    @endali im abstaining from starting april

    @tjhexf@transfem.social avatar tjhexf , to random

    there's pretty boys on fedi,

    deilann ,
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    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    people who "don't care what you do in your own home" have a strange habit of staring through the windows

    @endali@tech.lgbt avatar endali , to random

    why wasn't the river green in chicago when i was there

    scammed

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    @endali did you go hate the bean at least

    deilann ,
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    @endali wow you got ultra scammed by chicago

    @pierogiburo@tech.lgbt avatar pierogiburo , to random

    what would you do

    deilann ,
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    @endali @pierogiburo getting crispy

    @endali@tech.lgbt avatar endali , to random

    :neocat_cry_loud: :neocat_cry_loud: :neocat_cry_loud:

    the yamaha careers website, showing no results for a "queer weirdo" query
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    @endali create unsolicited queery

    @TootBosAdmin@toot.boston avatar TootBosAdmin , to random

    Is there a good 'pick an instance - decision tree' image I could hand to a fediverse novice to get them over the initial hurdle of figuring out the first step of getting started on mastodon?

    deilann ,
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    @TootBosAdmin

    i'm not familiar with any images but https://fedi.garden/ from @FediTips is pretty good to give folks to help make a decision

    not all are mastodon though most are

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    I just realized that remote work makes it a lot harder to just drop a thumb drive in a company's parking lot and just wait

    What are you going to find a few employees and where they live and hope

    @deilann@tech.lgbt avatar deilann , to random

    i feel like i'm doing something wrong looking at stock photos of socks