uh guys we've been unable to pay for utilities this month so our power is getting shut off and our wifi is already gone. i had to make this post with the little mobile data i have left. uhm. bye ??
i hate asking for money but i can't start this second semester without any power :( and i know i already asked for money for vet fees but i really dont wanna have to spend the vet money on utilities since i care more about my cat than myself so uhm. i'll keep saving up and counting pennies to get him his treatment even if i have to live in the dark
you don't have to donate, but it'd help. i depend on welfare money that instantly goes into other bills and college tuition and my bedrotter neet mom has been jobless for a year and a half now.
all i really have for now is a phone, college wifi, and library computers so i can manage for now !! it'd be nice to have this dealt with asap holy shit 😭😭😭 okay bye until our power and wifi gets paid i guess?? 😭😭 idk how we're gonna cook
First gift to myself when the new job starts is a new pack of these bad boys because my last set (read: the binders I alternate through currently) was bought in 2020.
:boost_ok: For those that use their vagina for sexual stimulation, are on testosterone, and had a hysterectomy, did you lose sensation afterwards? If so, how much?
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We took quite a few photos during my last night at the hotel, so I'll post them over time. Please enjoy my cute outfit and perfect goth vibrator :goth_nails:
Hello world! My previous account was @ :')
More motivation to post here because I love Sharkey/Turkey :blobfox3c:
I have many names, but here I'm dissociative. I have many fandoms I am morally invested (main for now is #Ultrakill and #Dispatch
My notes are mostly eng/ukr, but there can be in german (but I'm scared to write in German 😭)
I'm #enby#transmasc, on my way to transition, I'm also #plural and diagnosed with #schizophrenia :ablobfoxhyper:. I still feel in denial but don't want to be ashamed of it.
I'll be shitposting, maybe writing and draw, when I will have energy for that.
A big "thank you" to link for allowing me to join fedi with this instance!!! :blobfoxcomfycofe:
(Based on 'The Fallen Angel' painting by Alexandre Cabanel. This piece encapsulates feeling of being punished for being your true self and feeling like the world can be against you at times, but even when pushed down not letting the world hold you back and being prideful of yourself and who you are. I am proud to be me! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵)
A yellow, ginger and white male anthro mouse furry sitting on the ground in the iconic "The Fallen Angel" Pose with a determined look on his face as a tear is escaping his eye. He has large angelic wings behind him subtly coloured like that trans flag to represent the fact that he (and I as the artist) am a trans man. He is sitting in an empty field with stormy skies above.
To my sisters: You are a beautiful, cute, and wonderful woman! No matter what any transphobe says.... you are valid, lovely and awesome!
To my brothers: I notice you, and you are handsome, gorgeous, and deserving of love and attention. I love you my brothers, and I will always accept you and acknowledge your existence.
To my enby siblings: I may or not be able to see you due to your mysterious nature, but I still try to see you! You are mysterious, cute, fabulous, handsome, manly, girly, both, neither, and everything! You are all so awesome, and I will always accept you all! #Transgender#Transfemale#Transwoman#LGBTQIA#Trans#Enby#Transmasculine#Transmasc
They (queer spaces) most of the time ignore whatever happened to trans men before hrt or even social transition, and afterwards as well, I received odd comments like I don't know what being "catcalled" or anything like that felt like, as I once said: I am a man with girl trauma. I have been exploited too. I know what exploitation feels like. I am a man anyway. Men do get exploited too but in a different manner. I experienced both ways.
I just remembered this community exists, though a bit dead, so let me write some of my life updates (and test if wafrn federates with lemmy well enough)
Got endocrinologist after migrating to new country, turns out my T levels were very low, not changing the dosage yet, but will switch to Nebido and we'll see how it works
My bros bought me a new binder that fits me very well! It's hard for me to breathe even in oversized binders though, so will wear only on special occasions. But I'm glad that I don't have to be a shrimp all the time
Moustache is a bit more visible, like not really grown yet, especially considering my T levels and genetically not very lucky with facial hair, but I'm glad that at least it grows.
Dysphoria induced dissociation when I look in the mirror has completely stopped. Also a huge win
to trans men who commit to toxic masculinity for acceptance or fragile one due to dysphoria, as another trans man, please get better social circles, do not force yourself to assimilate to toxic cis men around you, they definitely do not see you as a man behind your back when you leave the room.
im an audhd trans man (23) living in the midwest. im looking for friends/people to hang out with i guess
in theory i like video games, but im usually too tired to play them. im really into jrpgs, VNs, rpgmaker games, and indie/third party games. my favorites are Tales of Berseria, Labyrinth of Refrain, and Disgaea 1. i also like pokemon (but i dont buy the games anymore.) id like to develop an rpgmaker game one day.
im also really into vocaloid/utauloid/vsynth stuff. my favorite artists right now are izunoi shino, haraguchi sasuke, dj xaneiro, and nilfruits
im figuring out what i want to do and what i like right now. i'm a digital artist and i've done a bit of small scale web design and game modding but aside from that i dont have many hobbies :bun_flip: um i also like rodents and slugs and listening to video essays
i'm also a vulgar pervert looking to follow other perverts (i guess im kinky? more in theory than in practice.) i dont consider myself a furry but i think furries are neat. im 420 friendly and will probably talk about my own use. 18+ only please.
im shy and dont say very much so i spend a lot of time lurking. i dont know how much ill use this account but im curious about decentralized social media
I'm trans. Labels are beginning to drift, but I vibe with transsexual and don't consider myself to be queer. Gay, bigender, and grey aroace if you're wanting something more specific
I work primarily as a Stadium Tour Guide for Newcastle United, and as a private carer.
I'm a big football fan, and support Leeds United and Manchester United
to all transmascs peeps passing by:i love you. i see you. you matter.
you're all my little brothers and big brothers. and i consider myself fortunate to be either your little sister or your big sister. :transfeminine_flag:
we share no blood or no knowledge of each other. yet put us in the same room and we will have more in common with one another than some of us would have even with our closest friends. :ms_transgender_flag:
I always feel weird when there's a new thing to keep women safe, like an app or a service to help them get home safe. I honestly love that there are such things, but I feel weird that these days, I don't meet the requirements. I still get harassed. I still get followed. I still experience discrimination. I'm just not legally nor socially a woman.
It's a weird feeling leaving women's spaces and losing some of the protections you get from that, but not being more safe, because the goal is not "pass as a cis man".
hi call me arch, i'm one of the janitors of virilization.fans and the guy with the keys to the server. token binary trans man who uses he/him only and is hairy af
i usually shitpost and draw online, sometimes post about uma musume. currently i'm a neet tho LMAO
been on T since feb 2025, aiming for legal name and gender revision in a few months, and then just live my life i guess.
you can sometimes find this guy in an NS train, but do not approach unless i know you.
i love collecting soft/hardware and plushies. i have so many plushies.
also im gay i love men! :celh_mlm:
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