@sand@mindly.social avatar sand , to random

The problem with being a good parent is that when given a choice between spending time with friends or spending time with mom and dad, my kid will always want to hang out with us parents.

She knows she's going to have a good time and she's gonna get what she wants.

Kinda afraid she'll grow to be antisocial like the reclusive old man I've become

@thejapantimes@mastodon.social avatar thejapantimes , to random

Singapore’s stalled birthrate reflects a pattern across wealthy Asian economies where higher living standards, shifting values and gender imbalances have made low fertility persistent and resistant to quick policy fixes. https://www.japantimes.co.jp/commentary/2026/02/10/world/asias-falling-fertility-rates/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=mastodon

@sand@mindly.social avatar sand , to random

Slept awkwardly.

Woke up with that weird pain between my shoulder blades. You know the one...

My entire weekend is now ruined LOL

sand OP ,
@sand@mindly.social avatar

How I must have slept

@sand@mindly.social avatar sand , to random

One of the things I've struggled with while is the constant feeling of grieving relationships that fade in and out over time.

The parent groups, the coach/teacher groups, the play date and parenting groups, the neighbours, the local shop workers, the nearby restaurant staff. As time marches on, circumstances change, and so do the people. Those that were once familiar slowly become strangers or simply disappear.

Grief, but not just as your elderly family age and die. But that day-to-day grief when relationships fade away.

@sand@mindly.social avatar sand , to random

Still not 100%, but out of bed and moving around again.

Last week's root canal had me grumpy with swelling and headaches. Still can't chew on one side of my mouth without pain. I go in for a touch-up later in the week.

They gave me bucket of antibiotics to ingest beforehand to avoid any infection during and after the procedure. Those antibiotics turned my stomach upside down and inside out. Didn't eat much all weekend.

For my amusement, my kid was home with a cold and was coughing directly into my eyeballs and ears and mouth and nostrils. What a lovely, heartwarming experience that was.

So yeah, still a little grumpy 😎

@thejapantimes@mastodon.social avatar thejapantimes , to random

As populations decline and residents age in rural communities across the Chugoku region, livelihoods and traditions, including rice production, are either changing or disappearing. https://www.japantimes.co.jp/news/2026/02/02/japan/japan-aging-rural-rice-farming/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=mastodon

@thejapantimes@mastodon.social avatar thejapantimes , to random

The bluntly named "Are You Dead?” platform rocketed to the top of the app-store charts in China before going viral globally. https://www.japantimes.co.jp/commentary/2026/01/25/world/dying-app-chinas-latest-tech-obsession/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=mastodon

@sand@mindly.social avatar sand , to random

Made small talk with neighbour while shovelling snow from my driveway this morning.

Need to take the rest of the day off to recharge my social battery.

@thejapantimes@mastodon.social avatar thejapantimes , to random

In a Gifu Prefecture community in which roughly half of the residents are age 65 or older, people are helping one another with everyday problems in what could be a model case for an aging society. https://www.japantimes.co.jp/news/2026/01/19/japan/society/japan-aging-society-mutual-support/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=mastodon

@enog@masto.ai avatar enog , to random

Marcescence
…still holding on 😊
Not senescence in this case 🤔

ALT
@Linza@kamu.social avatar Linza , to random

40 years old. First reading glasses.

My mum was half blind at this age. My dad had reading glasses already in primary school, but the eye doctor made a long speech about how I am getting older and my eyes will get worse, as if expecting me not to take the news well. My brother in Odin, this is the best possible situation for this electrical meatsack. This shambling corpse could not get any better at seeing things. This mortal is coiled. That I can see to pick my own frames is a miracle.

@thejapantimes@mastodon.social avatar thejapantimes , to random
@h4ckernews@mastodon.social avatar h4ckernews Bot , to random
@ScienceDesk@flipboard.social avatar ScienceDesk , to random

Want to decelerate your brain’s aging process? Lend a hand. Regularly volunteering can reduce the rate of cognitive aging by around 15–20 percent, according to research by a team from the University of Texas at Austin and the University of Massachusetts. Read more from @:

https://flip.it/wvSArI

@thejapantimes@mastodon.social avatar thejapantimes , to random

Two large-scale studies have linked poor oral health among older adults to higher mortality rates and a higher risk of requiring long-term care. https://www.japantimes.co.jp/news/2026/01/05/japan/science-health/elderly-dental-hygiene/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=mastodon

@thejapantimes@mastodon.social avatar thejapantimes , to random
@rich@mastodon.gamedev.place avatar rich , to random

the scene where the guy drinks from the wrong Holy Grail in Indiana Jones, but it's just me looking in the mirror each day IRL

@CA_Hawthorne@writing.exchange avatar CA_Hawthorne , to random

Good day!

I keep referring to myself as post Covid because I’m no longer contagious. In truth, there are up days (taking this picture) & down days (yesterday).

Life goes on. I write, I walk, I rest. This is my battle, another battle, to fight.

Be everwell.

ALT
@thejapantimes@mastodon.social avatar thejapantimes , to random

Alzheimer's trials testing Novo Nordisk’s blockbuster GLP-1 drug semaglutide, despite their failure, underscore a shift to approaching the brain-wasting disease as a system of complex pathways. https://www.japantimes.co.jp/news/2025/12/12/world/science-health/alzheimers-trials-shift-approach/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=mastodon

@Aethelflaed@mstdn.social avatar Aethelflaed , to random

Eating dark chocolate could help to prevent aging according to a study by King's College in London. Examining a small number of Europeans it was found that those who shows less aging had higher levels of a chemical in their blood known as theobromine. this is a chemical that is derived from cocoa. Of course moderation must be taken as it contains sugar and milk fats and so further research is required to find an ideal amount. https://www.kcl.ac.uk/news/key-chemical-in-dark-chocolate-may-slow-down-ageing

@thejapantimes@mastodon.social avatar thejapantimes , to random
@thejapantimes@mastodon.social avatar thejapantimes , to random

By fostering the skills people need to make use of AI and building institutions that enable them to apply those skills creatively, Asia's economies can unlock new sources of inclusive, durable growth. https://www.japantimes.co.jp/commentary/2025/12/05/world/is-ai-asias-growth-engine/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=mastodon

@thejapantimes@mastodon.social avatar thejapantimes , to random

Machines clank and weights clatter at gyms across Japan, but the people working out aren’t your typical bodybuilders — many are in their 60s, 70s or even 80s. https://www.japantimes.co.jp/news/2025/12/04/japan/science-health/fitness-industry-elderly/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=mastodon

@sand@mindly.social avatar sand , to random

Woke up to an intense pain in my butt... and I'm not referring to my wife or kid 🤡

womp womp.

Butt seriously, feels like I've been dropped on my tailbone. WebMD says it's cancer and I only have a couple of weeks to live...