CALVIN: This whole Santa Claus thing just doesn’t make sense. Why all the secrecy? Why all the mystery? If the guy exists, why doesn’t he ever show himself and prove it? And if he doesn’t exist, what’s the meaning of all this?
HOBBES: I dunno … isn’t this a religious holiday?
CALVIN: Yeah, but actually, I’ve got the same questions about God.
Bill Watterson (b. 1958) American cartoonist Calvin and Hobbes (1987-12-21)
reminder that if you're questioning your gender, "what do I want?" and "what will make me happy?" tend to be much more useful questions than "what am I, really?"