75+ WLW Pick Up Lines to Rizz Up Any Woman

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Sex and relationship expert Gabrielle Kassel offers tips for irresistible WLW rizz
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If you’re trying to rizz up your recent Tinder match or charm that cutie you met at the gay bar, we’ve got you covered! We’ve put together a list of flirty, dirty, and funny pickup lines to maximize your sapphic rizz. Plus, keep reading for a guide to WLW rizz and some WLW dating tips, with exclusive insights from a sex and relationship expert.

Best Pickup Lines for WLW Rizz

Sex and relationship expert Gabrielle Kassel says a simple, direct ask is the most effective way to rizz up a WLW. You could say, “I’d love to take you on a date—can I give you my number?” or “I’m really enjoying flirting with you. Can I take you for coffee sometime?” That said, here are some bolder pickup lines you can try:

  • “They should suspend your license for driving all the girls crazy.”
  • “You must be a tarot card, because I can see my future with you.”
  • “I’m gonna let U-Haul me back to your place.”
  • “Are you a parking ticket? Because you’ve got fine written all over you.”
  • “I’d love to put my smile on your face.”
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Flirty WLW Pickup Lines

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  1. Use a forward, flirty pickup line to grab her attention.
    If you’re feeling confident, you can rizz her up with a bold pickup line. Subtlety is overrated—why not go for it with one of these over-the-top, flirtatious pickup lines?
    • “I’m new in town. Could you give me directions to your apartment?”
    • “Hey, don’t I know you? Yeah, you’re the girl with the beautiful smile.”
    • “Were you arrested earlier? It’s gotta be illegal to look that good.”
    • “I think that lipstick you’re wearing would look great on me. Wanna find out?”
    • “Do you listen to Girl in Red?”
    • “I’m surprised you haven’t been asked to leave. You’re making the other women look really bad.”
    • “There’s something wrong with my phone. It doesn’t have your number in it.”
    • “I’d love to put my smile on your face.”
    • “Was that an earthquake? Or did you just rock my world?”
    • “Kiss me if I’m wrong, but dinosaurs still exist right?”
    • “Are you gay enough to let me buy you a drink?”
    • “If you were words on a page, you’d be fine print.”
    • “Is your mother looking for a daughter-in-law?”
    • “I need to get some fresh air, because you just took my breath away.”
    • “They should suspend your license for driving all the girls crazy.”
    • “Let me tie your shoes. I don’t want you falling for anyone else.”
    • “Do you believe in love at first sight? Or should I try walking past again?”
    • “I’d take you to the movies, but they don’t let you bring in your own snacks.”
    • “Are you a magnet? Because you’re super attractive.”
    • “You must be a tarot card, because I can see my future with you.”
    • “Are you a camera? Every time I look at you, I smile.”
    • “Do you have a name, or can I just call you mine?”
    • “Is your name Google? You’re everything I’ve been searching for.”
    • “Do you have a sunburn, or are you always this hot?”
    • “You’re right, I’m bisexual. Can I bi you a drink?”

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Dirty WLW Pickup Lines

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  1. Add some spice to your rizz with a dirty pickup line.
    These pickup lines will leave no room for doubt in your interest in her. If you feel ready to turn up the heat, use one of these lines:
    • “I was feeling off today, but you just turned me on.”
    • “If I buy you dinner, will you be dessert?”
    • “You’re so sexy, my zipper is falling for you.”
    • “Give me your car keys so I can drive you crazy.”
    • “Nice pants. Can I talk you out of them?”
    • “I’ve been super on top of things lately. Want to be one of them?”
    • “Aw, you have 2 cats? Can I see the third?”
    • “Did you make your bed this morning? Wanna unmake it together?”
    • “My lips are like skittles. Wanna taste the rainbow?”
    • “Your belt looks really tight. Can I loosen it for you?”
    • “I’m looking for treasure. Mind if I explore your chest?”
    • “I’m gonna let U-Haul me back to your place.”
    • “Nice outfit. I wish I could pull it off.”
    • “1234, I declare a tongue war.”
    • “Your face or mine?”
    • “You look pretty busy, but do you mind if I add myself to your to-do list?”
    • “Let’s help the planet and shower together.”
    • “Wanna share your side of the bed tonight?”
    • “I don’t have a Subaru, but I can be a sub for you.”
    • “How do lesbians make love? It’s too complicated. I’d have to show you.”
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Funny WLW Pickup Lines

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  1. Rizz her up with your sexy sense of humor!
    If you’re in a goofy mood, these pickup lines are sure to get her to crack a smile. Some of them may be cringe-worthy, but there’s no shame in being a little corny. Try one of these funny pickup lines:
    • “Do I know you? Because you look like my next girlfriend.”
    • “Are you a parking ticket? Because you’ve got fine written all over you.”
    • “Your hand looks heavy. Want me to hold it for you?”
    • “I’m no Fred Flintstone, but I can make your bedrock.”
    • “Is your name WiFi? Because I’m feeling a connection.”
    • “Feel my shirt. It’s made of girlfriend material.”
    • “Do you have a shovel? Because I’m digging your look.”
    • “I’ll volunteer as your victim tonight since you’re clearly dressed to kill.”
    • “I’m feeling kind of lifeless lately. Could you give me mouth to mouth?”
    • “I thought I was a lesbian, but maybe I just can’t think straight around you.”
    • “Heard you like bad boys. Well I’m a terrible boy. I’m a woman.”
    • “I hate to be a Karen, but your clothes are making me uncomfortable. Can you take them off?”
    • “Les-bi-honest, I can tell you need a drink.”
    • “Are you a campfire? Because you’re hot and I want s’more.”
    • “Your lips look lonely. Wanna introduce them to mine?”
    • “Wanna go where no man has gone before?”
    • “Are you a communist country? Because I feel an uprising in my lower class.”
    • “Did we go to school together? I could’ve sworn we had chemistry.”
    • “Here I am! What are your other 2 wishes?”
    • “It’s a good thing same-sex marriage is legal, because I’m already planning our wedding.”
    • “I’m writing an article on the finer things in life and was hoping I could interview you.”
    • “I like my men like I like my coffee…I don’t like coffee.”
    • “Is there an airport nearby or is that my heart taking off?”
    • “Aren’t you worried about global warming? You’re making it hot in here.”
    • “How can I coordinate the U-Haul if I don’t even have your number?”
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How to Have WLW Rizz

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    Compliment her. A little bit of flattery can go a long way when you’re trying to rizz up another queer woman. Pick something specific about her style or her energy, and deliver the compliment with confidence. You can never go wrong with letting her know you’ve noticed her carefully curated outfit or her niche, indie music taste.
  2. 2
    Make and hold eye contact. Eye contact is a must for WLW flirting![1] The goal is to let her know that you’re interested, so make sure you’re holding eye contact while you talk to her. This will let her know that you’re engaged with what she’s saying, and might even make her a little nervous.
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    Playfully touch her. This is one way to get out of the classic WLW “are we friends or flirting?” spiral.[2] If she says something funny, you might try to playfully touch her arm, shoulder, or hand while you’re laughing.
    • Tip: Ask to compare hand sizes. This is an innocent but flirty approach to breaking the touch barrier.
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    Exchange music recommendations. “Do you listen to Girl in Red?” is a WLW pickup line for a reason. This is a particularly good move if you can’t quite tell if the girl you’re talking to is queer. Oftentimes, her taste in music will have hints—MUNA, Fletcher, or boygenius are all good indicators. And if you’re really feeling flirty, make a collaborative playlist!
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    Be confident and be yourself! Pickup lines will only get you so far. If you’re interested in her, be authentic and straightforward about it. It may sound overdone, says Kassel, but the best thing you can do is be yourself. “Don’t try to play a role, fake interest in something, or match someone else’s energy if it doesn’t feel natural.”[3]
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WLW Dating Tips

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    Meet other queer women on apps or in-person in queer spaces. Matchmaker and dating coach Lauren Sanders recommends using LGBTQ+ centered dating apps or going to queer meetup groups from sites like meetup.com.[4] If you’re new to WLW dating, apps like Hinge or Bumble are a good place to start. This is a low-stakes way to see what’s out there and try out some flirty pickup lines! You can also explore queer spaces like gay bars to get your feet wet.
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    Be direct when you’re asking her out. According to Kassel, a simple, direct ask is often the most effective and respectful approach—especially in queer spaces where you may not know if someone has the capacity to be attracted to people of your gender or their availability. Offering your number instead of asking for theirs can also feel more consent-forward, which can be soothing to people who have learned that being hit on can feel threatening. It puts the ball in their court and allows them to opt in without feeling cornered, they continue.[8]
    • Additionally, because you’ve explicitly stated that you want to take them on a date, odds are high that if they text you, they specifically are interested in going on a date with you, adds Kassel.[9]
    • Dating coach Alessandra Conti agrees, saying the best way to go about dating is by verbalizing what you want.[10] If you’ve been talking on an app for a while, or texting after you met IRL, ask her on a date!
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    Trust your instincts (for the most part). Life coach Cyndy Etler suggests relying on your gut and tuning into subtle cues.[11] If you’re having a hard time telling if she’s interested in you, trust your intuition! If she’s been using the WLW rizz we discussed above, chances are she likes you! Don’t be afraid to rely on your gaydar. Kassel also advises paying attention to reciprocity. “Are they asking you questions back? Leaning in? Matching your energy? In dating, mutuality (or lack thereof) is useful information.”[12]
    • That said, don’t rely on context clues alone, advises Kassel. Being in a queer-coded space (like a lesbian bar or drag brunch) can increase the likelihood of an overlapped identity. At the end of the day, “it’s best not to assume—checking in verbally is more reliable.”[13]
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    Respect the other person’s boundaries with grace. If someone isn’t interested, a simple “No worries—nice meeting you” goes a long way, notes Kassel. Respect should be a given in any setting, but given that queer spaces are often tight-knit, setting boundaries with grace and generosity keeps the space feeling safe for you and them, they continue.[14]
  5. 5
    Take things slow. WLW dating can be exciting, and you might find it tempting to fast track your relationship (the U-Haul stereotype exists for a reason). But remember, you don’t need to be in a rush. Dating coach John Keegan says that even though it’s challenging, it’s good to let go of the need for an outcome and to concentrate on getting to know the person you’re dating.[17] The early stages of a relationship are a fun and exciting time—remember to slow down and enjoy it!
    • Connections can move from “friendly” to “flirty” over time, agrees Kassel. Sometimes, they start flirty but ease into a mutually fulfilling platonic relationship. That kind of fluidity isn’t just okay, but a normal and healthy part of forging community and relationships![18]
    • Kassel says not to fret friendship energy. “There’s a lot of discourse in queer dating around how to tell if someone is complimenting you in a date way or a friend way. Sure, it makes sense that you want to know someone’s intentions, but friendship is a strong foundation for a romantic relationship.”[19]
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    Be patient. If you haven’t had much luck on the WLW dating scene, it doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. It can be tough meeting other queer women, depending on where you live and where you spend your time. But don’t worry, the right person is out there. You’ll be able to use your WLW rizz soon enough!
    • Etler notes, “If you Google LGBTQ organizations in town X, near where you live, a lot of times they have events. And if it's not your jam now or ever to go to an in-person event, there's also chats where you can be anonymous.”[20]
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About This Article

Gabrielle Kassel
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Gabrielle Kassel
Sex and Relationship Expert
This article was co-authored by Gabrielle Kassel and by wikiHow staff writer, Samantha Fulton, BA. Gabrielle Kassel is a sex educator and journalist. With over 10 years of experience, Gabrielle focuses on the intersection of pleasure, LGBTQ issues, and sexual wellness. Their work includes reported features, service journalism, SEO explainers, product testing and roundups, on-record expert commentary and brand education, and more. Gabrielle has over 2,500 bylines across Cosmopolitan, GQ, Women’s Health, Men’s Health, Healthline, and numerous others. They are also the co-host and creator of the Bad in Bed Podcast, interviewing leading sex educators and therapists. Gabrielle has a Bachelor’s in English Language and Literature and the Study of Women and Gender from Smith College. They are currently working towards a dual master's in Human Sexuality and Social Work from Widener University, and plan to offer queer-inclusive therapy and write a sex therapist’s guide to pleasurable queer sex.
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