• Septimaeus@infosec.pub
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    7 months ago

    Big fuckin shrug on the shave/no-shave thing. Both are hot if they’re hot and down. Same for dudes.

    And if unshaven whatever really turns you off, it’s OK but IMO kinda sucks for you, because most people have body hair and hair tends to grow back.

  • some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org
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    7 months ago

    I find women with hairy armpits hot because they don’t let society dictate how they should live.

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      4 months ago

      You’re assuming no woman without hairy armpits is simply making that choice for themselves.
      You’re also assuming no woman with hairy armpits is simply conforming with their ‘rebellious’ social group (such as “throathole” up there in the OOP), doing it to fit in with their explicitly-defined definitions of social rebellion.

      My favorite color’s pink, and one day when I was wearing a pink shirt, a friend, well-intentioned, I’m sure, commented with a smile on her face that ‘real men wear pink’, as if to compliment my ‘rebellion’ toward gender/sex norms.

      But it wasn’t rebellion. It’s just a color I like. Same can just as easily apply to a guy wearing blue, who isn’t trying to ‘conform’, but simply likes that color.

      Sometimes it’s just not that deep, and honestly I kind of respect it more when someone makes a choice like that based on neither conforming nor rebelling against an expectation. I say it’s actually more non-conformist to not give a shit what ‘side’ your subjective choices happen to land on.

  • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    As a woman with hairy pits I really don’t get the whole fetish for them. Like I just let them be hairy because of feminism from college encouraging me to reject stupid beauty standards then me promptly not giving a shit from then on.