Oh, excellent – thank you!

“what do I have to say to make you love me? You ungrateful shit you don’t know how good you could have it with me! You’re nothing without me!”

– Gavin Newsome probably

Fun trip! Goals…

One day I’ll take an overnighter beyond just at anchor in my local puddle. My M17 isn’t really set up for much beyond roughing it (tho folks have ridden them far and wide). I’ll post a pic in another thread

Nice! Looks like a comfy cruiser. Been meaning to drop in over there for a weekend or week some sunny summer day. Do you still sail on Pepin?

People always forget about patches, like patches are the Gen-X of fem HRT methods.

They’re easy to apply, easy to access, more efficacious than pills.

*terms and conditions apply.

Hey. It’s really shitty that on top of fighting for your life, you gotta deal with dysphoria, too. It’s not fair, and I’m so sorry.

I wore a lot of cute fem knit hats when I went through chemo, and that helped. I also leaned into clothes that emphasized my beautiful new-to-me fem figure, so if someone was going to misgender me it would have to be on purpose because they were an asshole and I didn’t care what they thought.

Surprisingly, my loving spouse taking lots of pictures helped a lot, then, and later. I was surprised by how fem I looked even when all I could think about was my big lumpy dome and face elbow that other people called a nose (it’s smaller than my dad’s cis wife’s, but try telling my brain that).

Hopefully this helps. You are beautiful.

Fuck cancer. Send cancer into the fucking sun. I believe in you.

Ps: there are LGBTQIA cancer support groups out ther, and they can really help. Here’s one such org.
https://www.cancer-network.org/

See shit like this is why I sought out a non cis-male surgeon

I always thought it should be possible to model the FFT in physical media. I think it would make an amazing piece of art

Just, she replied to a question about children’s trans healthcare with, “I will continue to protect women in sports…” so maybe more LGB ally