@PaulaAfterDark@lgbtqia.space avatar PaulaAfterDark , to random

time!

I'm Paula she/her.
By day I'm @PaulaToThePeople . After dark (at night, during depressions or other mental health crises) I turn into this.

I'll post followers-only (this is an exception) and followers will be reviewed, though I'm not too picky.

Topics:
queer
love

whatever

life

tbd
and probably a bit (my dog)

ALT
@h3mmy@lgbtqia.space avatar h3mmy , to random

Looks like I joined in Nov of 2022 so it might finally be time for a slighty more official post. :neofox_catmask:

The informal version can be found here: https://lgbtqia.space/@h3mmy/113125490160570583

<This is where I would put my "short bio" but you've already read it>

I'm a humanoid person and use and pronouns. I'm a , which means I can fail at being both a Millennial and Gen Z. Similarly, I'm multilingual so I can trip over my words in different modalities! :neobot_sign_asterisks:

My relationship style is very much and I find it suits my being quite well. I'm also but also like keeping the and labels since those apply. For those that have trouble picturing this: I'm close with many of my friends and they may as well be labeled as queer+(platonic-ish) partners.

I love just being present among people being themselves and observing the passion that drives them. It feeds my internal machinery, whatever that consists of. Not just any people, mind you. I have standards. And you probably meet that standard of being a decent human being. :blobcatpeek: If you don't meet this very simple standard, then you are in the wrong part of the internet and it's too late. :blobCat_angry:

Although most of my activity is commenting on posts or threads, I also like making posts occasionally. I make my nerdy techy posts on my techy alt account. The rest comes out here. :100_gay:

My DMs are open to my fellow folx. I may not always be able to respond quickly, but I will do my best.

This account is not dedicated to being NSFW. It just ends up having some NSFW, or NSFW adjacent items. These will always be CW'd. If they aren't, then something has gone awry. I'm usually more quiet IRL because I hate interrupting and most people aren't comfortable with silence. Those that are comfortable with there being silent co-existence end up getting more conversation and I will cherish all of the co-existing in the same space. :neofox_hug_cat:

The NSFW content is primarily stuff as I am active in my local community and it's a ritual art form for me. While most of my rope play is not sexual, I will write steamy, but descriptive because I like doing it and can have fun creating little stories. It also lets me have more influence over the narrative of my art. The fact that it strays into a suggestive domain does get me more attention, and I do enjoy seeing people politely hot & bothered by something I've done when it's appropriate. I might like the power or something, not really important to unpack here :ablobcatangel:

To view my pictures (including NSFW content), the best way is the "Media" tab on my profile. Turns out hashtags are useless for unlisted posts. There is a pinned post with a different collection for the project. You may pay tribute with cute animal pictures there

For follow requests, I need to be able to test if my hackles can go back down or not. If I don't accept your follow requests, it means I could not vet your account and it's probably blank or looks like a bot.