+1 for the new community idea. I would definitely followi it. I remember when occupy was happening there was organising via reddit. It may have just been lots of pizzas being ordered, but it did seem like a legitimate community.
It's something I struggle with. Some bad news comes out about some public persona doing something shitty and they get cancelled. But sometimes I really struggle with giving up the things they've made because I like them. There are also occasions where the person has been accused of something and it doesn't seem true to me, or ...
It always gets me that Matthew Broderick killed two people in a car crash and got off with a $100 fine. I love Ferris Bueller's day off, and I think he's really talented, but like this happened just after that movie, and he just did not seem to be held to account for it.
I remember hearing that the Sahara desert was created by Romans salting the earth.
That can't possibly be true?
Also I wonder how it is connected to Jesus saying 'you are the salt of the earth'. That seems like am entirely different thing, but then again maybe not?
I feel like the most modern equivalent is Vietnam.
I'm sorry for being five minutes late again for them so that maybe one day in a hundred years time I hear me a list with a gun and we will be to see how people balance it out in a hundred years time I hear me a list with a gun and we will be to see how people balance it out.
Not in America so viewing you as on the front lines of this present catastrophe.
Please do everything you can to avoid further entrenching resentment.
It looks like your country is so bitterly divided. I've visited once, and my impression was then that there is a lot more grey than any media or the internet conveys.
If you're living close to someone who supported that maniac, please do what you can to build bridges so that they can find a way back to sanity. I get that it's not fair and that responsibility should fall on them. But realistically I think you need to be the adult in the relationship.
Please do what you can to build bridges and be compassionate, curious. Own your own sense of moral outrage and dignity, but give these people space to make their mistakes and learn from them, without your judgement. Direct your hatred and anger against the acts that upset you, but be gracious and kind in your relationships. Allow your mother in law to be wrong. Honour whatever is good in her.
Don't be a player hater!
If she says something racist, don't just let it stand. But where you can, see if you can draw out her reasons. See if you can uncover the true fears behind the scapegoating. Just let her be heard, without judgement. Be curious about the person. And where you can do so with humility, share your own beliefs and what is important to you. But share in the interests of being known, not of flag bearing.
Give yourself space where you need. It's OK to feel strongly, and to be upset. But please, do the work to build bridges, don't let your family be divided by an utter madman.
I'm stoked by the engagement; I initially found the question following some article posted on bluesky. Replying there resulted in crickets. I thought to ask here on a hunch, and it's been wonderful to read all the responses.
Back in the day people would claim that what was good about reddit was that it was a community. Well it's not that anymore.
Peter (fl. 1863) (also known as Gordon, or "Whipped Peter", or "Poor Peter") was an escaped American slave who was the subject of photographs documenting the extensive keloid scarring of his back from whippings received in slavery. The "scourged back" photo became one of the most widely circulated photos of the abolitionist ...
Is anyone here so hardcore that they don't even bother with mainstream social media? If its not on Lemmy or Mastodon it must not be important? Anyone that hardcore?
I'm enjoying Bluesky too, but yeah, reddit sucks so much since the API changes. When was that?
I don't even remember anymore.
Look, we debated all this a decade ago. Can venture funded social media stay good? Now we know! Back then, the alternatives were more difficult to find and use. Lemmy and mastodon are here, and they're so easy. It's great. Keep building.
Feel like his handle 'the functional melancholic' is almost too apt.
It is a cynical view he reports, though with a relatively uplifting message. It's funny, despite the misanthropic presentation, the strongest emotion that came across for me was earnestness.
Is it worth watching? That depends. If you are in a place where you feel miserable about the state of the world, particularly America, which you have every right to be! Then yeah it is worth your time (sped up, he talks slow) because it is a message of encouragement.
The European Commission sees open-source software as more than an IT tool. Policy makers are encouraging open-source ecosystems to drive innovation, autonomy and collaboration in a world where global trade is being redrawn. ...
This is what I'm excited about. My parents are in the market for new laptops, I'm going to see if they will take a framework running popOS and make the switch to Linux. It's incredible that this option is now so approachable.
I was always wary about reddit being a non-opensource/non-federated platform. But the communities there were incredible. I remember when it really was like the 'front page of the internet'. But I could not believe the user unfriendly decisions they made, and the app ban was the death-knell.
Besides, Lemmy is awesome! Not much need to go back.
I'm so inspired by the Fediverse, the social options we have these days are just magical.
A decade ago, Diaspora got press because they were going to build an alternative to Facebook. But there was hype and then there was disappointment.
Now, everybody knows how terrible legacy social media is. Everybody knows. Sure, most people are still stuck there. But these vibrant alternative places exist! The options are exciting! It is so much better than it's ever been!
Just keep building. This is great, and it's only just started.
Protests continue after ICE agent fatally shoots woman in Minneapolis ( www.cbc.ca )
In relation to this, thinking about a new community for Political Activism. Calls to action, that kind of thing. ...
It has it's strengths
Who is an artist or public figure you still enjoy despite them being cancelled for bad behaviour?
It's something I struggle with. Some bad news comes out about some public persona doing something shitty and they get cancelled. But sometimes I really struggle with giving up the things they've made because I like them. There are also occasions where the person has been accused of something and it doesn't seem true to me, or ...
Can Americans learn to love tiny, cheap kei cars? ( www.npr.org )
Can't stop till brimstone
Grim Statistics
Anyone in tech confirm?
Arent we all
An ethics question
Hey all. Getting right to it: ...
Do boycotts work?
Like do they actually, reliably effect change in the way the activists intend? ...
Meh, I'm more of an Aragorn fan...
Cleaned our disgusting microwave
Used vinegar trick, worked pretty well
OK what is your Roman name?
TIL When you hover over a piece of the phonetic notation on (English) Wikipedia, it shows you an example for its pronunciation
If you argue for a cause like affordable housing for everyone, is it necessarily hypocritical if you also own investment properties?
What’s your favourite forgotten/niche or otherwise obscure TV series that you wish more people knew about?
Is Rotten Tomatoes Still Reliable? A Statistical Analysis ( www.statsignificant.com )
Peter, a man who escaped from slavery, shows his scourging scars, US 1863
Peter (fl. 1863) (also known as Gordon, or "Whipped Peter", or "Poor Peter") was an escaped American slave who was the subject of photographs documenting the extensive keloid scarring of his back from whippings received in slavery. The "scourged back" photo became one of the most widely circulated photos of the abolitionist ...
‘Why didn’t you tell me?’: the Australian push to have all adopted people told their full history and identity ( www.theguardian.com )
Gelatine
How many of you use Lemmy and ONLY use Lemmy vs Reddit?
Is anyone here so hardcore that they don't even bother with mainstream social media? If its not on Lemmy or Mastodon it must not be important? Anyone that hardcore?
How does everyone deal with this dilemma?
Canada Goose
Of course he has
From this article: ...
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What are some good examples of "Where the fuck do you go" kind of games?
We've all played them. Backtracking, not knowing where to go. Going back and forth. Name some of these games from your memory. ...
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I always think the dull men's club Vegemite is a picture of Bert
From Bert and Ernie. And it still seems appropriate.
What's something that's free that everyone should know about?
I'll start by plugging Harvard's free courses catalog as well as Udemy ...
A guide to switching your Audiobook app to support smaller and more ethical businesses (Canadian Edition!)
I shouldn't care but I do. My father has been so absent throughout my whole life
Hi everyone. I created this community here on Lemmy because I wish to give others what I have never felt: the love and the support of a father. ...
Tariffs Spark Shift to Open Source ( news.opensuse.org )
The European Commission sees open-source software as more than an IT tool. Policy makers are encouraging open-source ecosystems to drive innovation, autonomy and collaboration in a world where global trade is being redrawn. ...
are you permanently banned off reddit? or do you just like lemmy more?
i need to know
Internet forums are disappearing because now everything is Reddit and Discord. And that's worrying. ( www-xataka-com.translate.goog )
What are we going to do about it? ...