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I want to ask this genuinely (you don’t have to answer if this something private), but doesn’t something like that foster resentment?
Being upfornt here, I have no relationship expertise, so I have no framework of how finances look separate vs joined but I have heard about this a lot on the internet and struggle to see how it can implemented in healthy romantic relationship.
That’s meant to distract you from Grandma in the bottom left corner.
Thanks for reply,
I wanted to ask people about how are their teeth in general but mess it up by putting the image at the top, so everyone assumed I meant how are their teeth structured rather how they feel about them.
Regarding the other issue, I’m not going to kink shame, but it’s generally considered a faux pas to use teeth in that situation
I meant that it would be harder for me to keep my teeth’s from scraping the other person’ s with my tooth due to it’s position behind my teeth.
Either way, it’s not like I am playing to do any sucking, just a thought that occurred to me
I don’t have answer. This something i have been thinking about lately after listening to a podcast saying that most programming productions now employ AI assistants and its become more or less standard.And when going to github to get software, i realized there is no way of knowing which app were coded using AI or even “Vibe Code”. A let’s player i watch has encountered a couple of Games that used AI, especially AI vocals and both her and her audience are now apprehensive(and so am i) about games
Its something i think we need to accept as time goes on, the idea that we can always tell and to be on 24/7 AI alert. Its just not sustainable.
Either way i still avoid AI stuff, especially art but as time goes on, i know i will care less and less. I am still hoping that its all Bubble that will burst in a few years but you cant hold your breathe forver
Sure There are for all three but depending on the system that can change too and most of them can be grouped together. If this is something that interests you, i would suggest you pick two systems and try them out. Really thought this is more a manifestation of my anxiety than anything practical, i have been stuck writing and rewriting systems for a week. I still think there is value in making a brief system for one or two parts of your life
Lab system:
tools and places for messing around; special partitions, virtual machines and new OSs on other ssd
Library system:
book tracking,review site, forums for discussing/recommendation/book clubs/ebook readers, ways to sync and where to get books
Cinema system:
where to watch, tracker for show and movies,review site, forums
Threat level system:
essentially what data you want to protect and from whom and tools you use
Social system:
what social medias do you use and where do you spend your time, what communities are you looking for online and which are available offline, support systems, both online and offline
Share system:
tools for sharing stuff and what not to share, collaboration tools
Legal system:
was exposed to CSAM for the second in time in my life a few weeks back and decided i need the tools to report it, that’s not really something talked about much when it comes to online safelycontent warning for CSAM
Convince Convenience system: Convince
what changes can you make around you that would cost you a little more (i.e better shaving tools, changing the shower head if its too short, using smaller spoons for measuring) that would make your life easier. Its note really a system, think of it more of a List of proposed changes
Digital identity system:
most of us use multiple social media accounts and have different identities(i.e what to share) for each one. there is also the question which accounts to link if thats something you want
here is a Template i came up with
Name System
-Toolbox
-Ideas List
-work flow(for something like steps for backups)
-check list(can have recurring task e.g backups)
-communities
definitely a 2. Been having the cringas lately.
Consuming a full jar of coffee in 3 days to feel like I am doing something productive
Didn’t even know there were gloves, and like why? Is petrol toxic over time or something?
Hi for some reason, i write like i am having a stroke, sorry for that. still not sure how to communicate the type of taste though
I been having the ocds lately. I keep wanting to catalogue everything i have from Digital to Physical
even came up with the idea that everything, objects and actions, can categories into systems:
Systems
- File system
- Partition system
- Backup system
- Lab system
- Task manager system
- Note taking system
- Library system
- Cinema system
- health system
- Learning system
- Contact, calendar,task manager and email system
- Social system
- Threat level system
- Emergency system
- Contact system
- Journal system
- Share system
- internet data quota management system
- Paper document management system(and its backup)
- Home economics system
- Savings system
- Research system
- Browser system
- App (web vs mobile vs PC) system
- Archive system
- Time management system
- Security system
- Legal system
- Safety system
- Convince system
- Hygiene system
- Tool system
- Digital Storage system
- Linux system
- cleaning systems
- organization system
- inventory system
- de-cluttering system
- digital identity system
- account system
- writing system
- social media posting system
- review system
And you can further group and fuse systems but keeping a record of your every breath is its own hell.
I never let my drawers get cluttered though, unlike my mom. I even go through it with her to organize and de-clutter(for context: this specific drawer doesn’t contain clothes or her own personal stuff, like screw drivers, hammers, blood glucose meters, first-aid stuff, balance meters etc, making it a mini-storage unit of the house). I even label my own drawers.
There are also the Itchs inside your skull
Haven’t to me in Sudan for a me, and yes it is an addiction, but you do cope, its just you keep reaching for the phone, sometimes without realizing it.
Also it’s fucking boring
Same here and same client
This is a 3 day account, looks like an LLM not too
I haven’t related to a feeling so much in recent time
I power the computer, launch terminal(htop), text editor, obsidian, webapps, firefox, reddit(webapps)lemmy(webapps),tumblr(webapps) youtube(webapps) and all their bookmark managers and then 20 mins in, the computer crashes
I recognize i have a problem here but i am not sure what exactly it is and what the solution look like. How do you all browse on PCs and how do you deal with the fear of missing out(what i assume is happening here)? How much is too much?
This made me realize just how much YT doesn’t know what it wants to be, with introduction of YT shorts and other social media features.
God, so much this, and thinking you are crazy for thinking that while also knowing on surface level, a lot of other people feel the same way
that staments doesn't make sense, since presume their cousins just immigrated to the US.
then their is that third language in whatsapp, where they use english and numbers to spell out Arabic words
I use the tasting smell as example of not feeling the tastein your mouth. I am struggling to think of examples now but lets say you have a liquid medicine that without even tasting it, the smell tells you it taste bad.









I want to ask this genuinely (you don’t have to answer if this something private), but doesn’t something like that foster resentment?
Being upfornt here, I have no relationship expertise, so I have no framework of how finances look separate vs joined but I have heard about this a lot on the internet and struggle to see how it can implemented in healthy romantic relationship.
That’s meant to distract you from Grandma in the bottom left corner.
Thanks for reply,
I wanted to ask people about how are their teeth in general but mess it up by putting the image at the top, so everyone assumed I meant how are their teeth structured rather how they feel about them.
I meant that it would be harder for me to keep my teeth’s from scraping the other person’ s with my tooth due to it’s position behind my teeth.
Either way, it’s not like I am playing to do any sucking, just a thought that occurred to me
How is everyones teeth?
I have been thinking about this is for a while now.
I don’t have answer. This something i have been thinking about lately after listening to a podcast saying that most programming productions now employ AI assistants and its become more or less standard.And when going to github to get software, i realized there is no way of knowing which app were coded using AI or even “Vibe Code”. A let’s player i watch has encountered a couple of Games that used AI, especially AI vocals and both her and her audience are now apprehensive(and so am i) about games
Its something i think we need to accept as time goes on, the idea that we can always tell and to be on 24/7 AI alert. Its just not sustainable.
Either way i still avoid AI stuff, especially art but as time goes on, i know i will care less and less. I am still hoping that its all Bubble that will burst in a few years but you cant hold your breathe forver
Looking for recommendations for a conversation style podcast
Ok, so i pretty much am constantly listening to something in the bacground, usually a podcast or creeypasta, and yeah its a problem
What are alternative to searching using web search engines?
For most use cases, web search engines are fine. But I am wondering if there are alternative ways to finding information. There is also the enshittification of google and tbh most(free) search engines just give google search result
Sure There are for all three but depending on the system that can change too and most of them can be grouped together. If this is something that interests you, i would suggest you pick two systems and try them out. Really thought this is more a manifestation of my anxiety than anything practical, i have been stuck writing and rewriting systems for a week. I still think there is value in making a brief system for one or two parts of your life
Lab system:
tools and places for messing around; special partitions, virtual machines and new OSs on other ssd
Library system:
book tracking,review site, forums for discussing/recommendation/book clubs/ebook readers, ways to sync and where to get books
Cinema system:
where to watch, tracker for show and movies,review site, forums
Threat level system:
essentially what data you want to protect and from whom and tools you use
Social system:
what social medias do you use and where do you spend your time, what communities are you looking for online and which are available offline, support systems, both online and offline
Share system:
tools for sharing stuff and what not to share, collaboration tools
Legal system:
content warning for CSAM
was exposed to CSAM for the second in time in my life a few weeks back and decided i need the tools to report it, that’s not really something talked about much when it comes to online safely
Convince
Conveniencesystem: Convincewhat changes can you make around you that would cost you a little more (i.e better shaving tools, changing the shower head if its too short, using smaller spoons for measuring) that would make your life easier. Its note really a system, think of it more of a List of proposed changes
Digital identity system:
most of us use multiple social media accounts and have different identities(i.e what to share) for each one. there is also the question which accounts to link if thats something you want
here is a Template i came up with
Name System
-Toolbox
-Ideas List
-work flow(for something like steps for backups)
-check list(can have recurring task e.g backups)
-communities
definitely a 2. Been having the cringas lately.
Consuming a full jar of coffee in 3 days to feel like I am doing something productive
Didn’t even know there were gloves, and like why? Is petrol toxic over time or something?
Hi for some reason, i write like i am having a stroke, sorry for that. still not sure how to communicate the type of taste though
I been having the ocds lately. I keep wanting to catalogue everything i have from Digital to Physical
even came up with the idea that everything, objects and actions, can categories into systems:
Systems
And you can further group and fuse systems but keeping a record of your every breath is its own hell.
I never let my drawers get cluttered though, unlike my mom. I even go through it with her to organize and de-clutter(for context: this specific drawer doesn’t contain clothes or her own personal stuff, like screw drivers, hammers, blood glucose meters, first-aid stuff, balance meters etc, making it a mini-storage unit of the house). I even label my own drawers.
Looking for an address book app that cutomizable
I have been looking for doctors, saving numbers, emails and working hours in a onlyoffice spreadsheet but its not really readable at a glance. Looked around for an address books app but neither gnome calendar nor Thunderbird meet my needs.
Bookmark vault/archive links tool that is outside the browser
Looking for a link archiving tool to save links that i have no intention of viewing anytime soon. it needs to be able to sort bookmarks by folders and sub-folders, tags are just not my thing. It doesn’t have to be anything crazy but it needs to be offline first and have the ability to export bookmarks in a readable format
There are also the Itchs inside your skull
Haven’t to me in Sudan for a me, and yes it is an addiction, but you do cope, its just you keep reaching for the phone, sometimes without realizing it.
Also it’s fucking boring
Same here and same client
Choosing a distro based on repositories near me
Does the speed/location of repos factor into your choose of distro? I am in Egypt and while linux mint repos speeds are fine when updating and installing here, fedora and manjaro are incredibility slow, manjaro especially is the slowest, like maybe 30 minutes or more slow for an install that takes a few minutes in linux mint
How enforceable is an NDA really?
In stories, especially creepypasta, its sounds more like a magical contract than a piece of paper