Ask Gay Men

Like, I get bareback feels better but, like, HIV is still a thing, and other STIs too I guess. But seems like nobody actually cares lately. Am I the one being weird?

I’m 29, almost 30, and never had a boyfriend. I’m on like 20 dating apps and a lot of them don’t reply back or I get unmatched. A lot of them aren’t my type. But when I go to New York I see my type (gym rats) with someone who is bigger than them, they’re definitely feeders. But it’s not fair, I’m not fat, I workout I deserve a gym rat boyfriend who enjoys pop music and likes to get high. Like my standards aren’t high. Why is it so hard to get a boyfriend!?

Are there any other single gay guys (50+) out here?

First off, most of us don’t have one “type”,I think, for example I have never been able to look at a guy and say he is hot because and name one attribute that made that true. To add to that I have had people “get sexy” that that I swore I would never want to date/hookup with because of conversation, talent, and all kinds of crazy shit.

Hey everyone! I noticed while there was a !askgaybros@lemmy.cock.social , there was no community for less-graphic questions regarding being gay. I’d like this community to still be able to discuss sex-based questions, but trying to keep it as SFW as possible. If you seem to not be able to ask a question without being overtly graphic, head over to the other community up above!