You were never taught how attraction works. That's it. That's the whole problem.
I’m JT Tran. I spent years being invisible to women despite having an aerospace engineering degree (literally rocket science!), a great paying job, and a Mercedes.
eHarmony literally refunded my money. Told me I was “too cerebral” to match.
So I did what any engineer does with a hard problem. I studied it. I tested it. I built a system.
That system has now helped thousands of men across six continents get real results with dating. Not by teaching them tricks. By rebuilding how they show up.
The 3-day bootcamp is where that transformation starts.
As seen on: ABC Nightline | NBC | Harvard | Yale | Wharton | LA Weekly
ABOUT JT TRAN
I grew up Vietnamese American in the South at a time when being Asian meant being invisible at best, a target at worst.
I went to college on scholarship. Became an aerospace engineer. Did everything right. And I still couldn’t get a date.
I wasn’t bad-looking. I wasn’t awkward. I just had no framework for how social dynamics and attraction actually worked. Nobody in my life ever showed me.
When I finally figured it out, I didn’t keep it to myself. I started the ABCs of Attraction so other men, especially those who’ve never had the big brother to show them the ropes, could learn what I had to figure out the hard way.
“Be successful BECAUSE you’re an Asian man. Not in spite of it.”
— JT Tran
I’ve spoken at Harvard, Yale, and Wharton. I’ve been featured on ABC Nightline and NBC. I’ve coached men from college students to 60-year-old professionals across six continents. More than 100 former students have gone on to get married. I am the only dating coach in the world to have presided over a student’s wedding.
What I teach works. Not because it’s slick. Because it’s built on real psychology, 20+ years of field-tested results, and a system that treats you as a capable man who just needs the right framework.
THE SYSTEM
The ABCDEF System: A Map, Not a Script
The ABCDEF System is a six-phase framework. At every stage, it develops three things at the same time:
- Inner Game: how you think, feel, and carry yourself under pressure
- Outer Game: what people see before you say a word like your body language, your command presence, and how you occupy a room
- Verbal Game: what you say, how you say it, and when to say nothing at all
Most approaches overload one of these and neglect the others. Scripts without presence feel hollow. Presence without communication stalls. Inner work without real-world reps stays theoretical. The ABCDEF System forces all three to develop together.
When you’re nervous and the moment is uncertain, you don’t need to remember a script. You just remember your ABCs.
Bruce Lee
Absorb what is useful,
Discard what is not,
Add what is uniquely your own.
