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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Similar to what OP is doing - minimizing consumption as much as I can, and being selective with sources when I have to. If I need something, I try to buy used first.

    This includes, but is not limited to, avoiding US products and services. I still have investments, but try to focus on ESG as much as possible (though I’m aware that participating in stock markets etc is problematic in itself, but I don’t have a lot of choice in the matter).

    I’m also trying to move away from a profit/monetary value maximizing mindset, and want to focus on sustainability, durability and social benefits.

    In reality, these are all goals that I often fall short of. But I want to keep trying and get better.










  • Not really the same situation, but I got my driver’s license at 43 years old. Leading up to me taking lessons, I was overthinking the whole process. So a few thoughts from that angle for the driving itself:

    • take some refresher lessons with an instructor. For me it was reassuring to have a professional in the car. That should help you with the distance calculation bit.
    • when you start driving on your own, try to avoid high stress situations. Like, avoid rush hour, take short trips on routes your familiar with.
    • somewhat the opposite, but not really: take a road trip. Go somewhere quiet, into the country side. Gain familiarity and confidence.
    • as you get more used to it, you’ll find that it becomes more and more normal and less stressful.
    • drive defensively. Leave space. If others butt in, let them and give them space.

    For some other points you mentioned:

    • get a cushion to raise you up if you can’t adjust the seat height. I am average height and did that to get better visibility.
    • blind spots are also car dependent. Are you tired to a specific car, or can you shop around, maybe for something smaller?