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Elite, Hand-Selected
Matches
Discreet, Confidential
Service
Tailored Relationship
Strategy Sessions
Luxury Matchmaking,
Boutique Approach
Trusted by Executives &
High-Profile Clients
The Founders Club — Million Dollar Membership
“At this level, there is no list. There is only you.”
The ultimate expression of bespoke matchmaking for those who pursue excellence in every facet of life—including love. With a $1 million investment, you’re not simply engaging a service; you’re securing a level of personal attention and discretion that mirrors how you’ve achieved success in every other area of your life.

Servicing Areas

Popular
New York California Menlo Park Miami Palm Beach Phoenix San Francisco Silicon Valley Virginia Washington D.C.
Northeast
New York Boston Hartford Hudson Yards Long Island Manhattan Martha’s Vineyard Nantucket New Haven Philadelphia SoHo Star Island The Hamptons Tribeca
Southeast
Arlington Atlanta Baltimore Bethesda Boca Raton Charleston Charlotte Chevy Chase Fisher Island Jupiter Key Biscayne McLean Miami Naples Nashville Palm Beach Potomac Richmond Tampa Virginia Washington D.C. Wolf Trap
Southwest
Austin Dallas Phoenix Scottsdale Southlake
West
Beverly Hills Boulder California Denver Indian Wells Las Vegas Los Altos Los Angeles Menlo Park Palm Desert San Diego San Francisco San Jose Seattle Silicon Valley
Midwest
Chicago Cleveland Minneapolis St. Louis

Frequently Asked Questions

What areas do you serve?

Select Date Society serves elite singles in top cities and regions across the U.S., including New York City, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Miami, Dallas, Chicago, Washington DC, Boston, Houston, Atlanta, and many more. For a full list of our service areas, please refer to our website or inquire directly.

Why is Select Date Society so exclusive?

Exclusivity is at the heart of our success. By carefully selecting clients who align with our values and standards, we maintain a highly vetted, intentional community—ensuring the best possible outcomes for every member.


Is my information kept private when I inquire?

Absolutely. Your privacy is our top priority. All details you submit are handled with complete confidentiality and are never shared without your explicit consent.

Who can apply for Select Date Society’s premium matchmaking services?

We welcome inquiries from successful, selective, and professional singles who are ready for a more intentional and exclusive dating experience. Our clients value privacy, high standards, and meaningful connections.

How soon will I hear back after submitting my inquiry?

You can expect to hear from a member of our Executive Team within a few business days. We take time to review each inquiry thoughtfully to ensure a personalized response.


How does Select Date Society screen potential matches?

We speak with every potential match personally. It’s not just about checking boxes; it’s about understanding who they are, how they live, and what they want. This creates higher-quality introductions and ensures genuine compatibility.

How seriously does SDS treat privacy and discretion?

Extremely seriously.

For some of our clients — executives, public figures, UHNWI privacy isn’t a preference; it’s a requirement. We treat privacy with the highest priority and use NDAs, secure communication and strict data handling protocols. Your details are kept confidential throughout the entire luxury matchmaking process.

What Does a matchmaker do?

A matchmaker at Select Date Society carefully curates and connects you with compatible, high-quality singles based on your values, lifestyle, and goals. We handle everything from vetting potential matches to offering personalized coaching and ongoing support saving you time and ensuring meaningful, lasting relationships with discretion and professionalism.