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  • I started with the smallest task imaginable, and left it there until I finally felt the desire to ramp it up. Pick up one thing. That’s all you have to do that day. Even if 10 more things took its place immediately afterward, you still did something. Tomorrow pick up one thing again.

    It took a few weeks, or even months in some cases, but if you’re like me, you might eventually start saying “well, while I’m doing that, I might as well also pick up this other thing” and all of a sudden you’re picking up 2 things.

    Just let it ramp at whatever pace you want - the goal isn’t to get there quick - hell, the goal isn’t to get there at all, really. The goal is just to do something, and if you eventually decide to do something more on your own, that’s awesome.





  • Signtist@bookwyr.metome_irl@lemmy.worldMe_irl
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    4 days ago

    I literally had to run as they were calling my name over the intercom. If that’s a normal Tuesday for you, I’m glad I’m not you. And yeah, of course I have 3 hours to kill doing “nothing,” it’s exactly the same as what I’m doing now. I can browse the fediverse, watch videos, play games, or just have a nice conversation with my wife. I feel no obligation to be productive to the point where I need to squeeze out 2 more hours of activities just so that I can risk having to run to catch a plane. What you do with your time is up to you, but I’ve never regretted sitting peacefully with my wife for a few hours in an airport.


  • The damage is permanent on a cellular level - the affected cells will either die, or in the case of radiation exposure, can become cancerous instead. If you got a small enough exposure, and immediately sought medical attention to remove the toxin from your body in the case of amatoxin ingestion, then only some cells will be affected, and maybe your organs can continue functioning and eventually recover after the affected cells die off. If the damage is significant, you might survive if you get a liver transplant and dialysis, since the liver and kidneys are the most affected due to their role in filtering and removing toxens.




  • That was an issue for me as well when I started working from home, but I was able to slowly start getting myself to do things on my own, instead of needing to tack them on to preexisting commitments like going to work, which has actually helped me out a lot. The trick was for me to do the smallest possible thing, and ramp it up incredibly slowly. I started working out again by literally doing one sit-up a day. For weeks that’s all I did, but eventually I moved up to 5, then to more, and added more exercises until now, where I’ve got a whole weekly routine.

    I did the same thing for other chores that needed doing, and it’s been long enough now that I can just decide to do something that I need to do in the moment, instead of always saying “I’ll do it after work,” which would always turn into “I’ll do it after work tomorrow” when work actually ended. It makes outings more fun, too, since they’re not always filled to the brim with all the things I was putting off doing.


  • Signtist@bookwyr.metome_irl@lemmy.worldMe_irl
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    7 days ago

    Missing a flight is flat-out unacceptable to me. I know you can reschedule or whatever, but no, I’d never even consider letting that be a possibility. A near-failure isn’t success, success is when you get there without the thought of missing the plane even crossing your mind. For me and my wife, that happens at the 3 hour mark.


  • I like that people like dogs - they deserve a good home and loving owner - but they make me nervous. I was almost attacked by a dog on the street as a kid, and my dad had to take the bite instead to save me. 2 other kids in my family have been bitten by dogs as well, both times by dogs they had spent a significant amount of time with, but that suddenly got triggered by something out of the blue and attacked. I just can’t trust that they’ll always be friendly, and even one second of aggression is enough to cause some real damage.


  • Signtist@bookwyr.metome_irl@lemmy.worldMe_irl
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    7 days ago

    My wife and I are usually the 3 hours early type, and the one time we carpooled with her parents who are more like you, something had gone wrong at the TSA stations, and only 2 were open, causing a huge slowdown with the line going well past the zigzag ropes and down the hall.

    We barely made it on the plane before they closed the doors. My wife and I agreed then that 3 hours will always be our time. Neither one of us minds sitting at the airport and chatting instead of sitting at home chatting - it barely makes a difference.



  • You can’t in one conversation, but if everyone they knew joined in, it would. Ultimately, it’s about whether or not they’re getting it from all angles. If there’s a group they can fall back on that allows them to hold their current beliefs, they’ll do that, but the smaller that group is, the more likely they are to change their opinion. People don’t often hold opinions that go against the opinions of literally everyone they know.

    Sure, it’s unlikely that any of these conversations would actually realize that slim chance of making a difference, since just about everyone has someone that lets them voice even their most heinous opinions unchallenged, but I choose not to be a part of that group for anyone, regardless of how much time and effort it costs me. It’s not something you do for them, it’s something you do for you.


  • Signtist@bookwyr.metoComic Strips@lemmy.worldFedead
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    9 days ago

    I used to work at FedEx, and while most people did try to get all the packages in safely and “this way up,” they just want us to pack so many boxes into each truck that it becomes impossible by the end of the shift no matter how good you are at Tetris, and you end up just having to put things wherever they fit, even if they’re crushing another box. But also, yeah, there was one guy who took great pleasure in punting boxes into his truck, so pack that shit up good.






  • Yeah, if you’re like me and like the fun dialogue the most, I’d just focus on DQ8 and see if you like it enough to finish it. If you do, I’d suggest giving 11 another go after that, since that’s definitely the most similar title in the franchise. If you do want to try getting into the custom characters games down the line, 7 reimagined would probably be a decent starting point, since they have some customization while still having distinct characters with personality and voice acting.