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  • I’ve had a few different toys over the years. At times they can be great but they are a lot more work. You must clean them after use or they get extremely gross and foul. Lubrication is a must. There’s a lot of knock offs and gimmicks out there, but really you’re just paying for a good silicon mold to slide over your member, so make sure you get something sized right for you.

    While they do feel great, personally I don’t recommend them largely due to the hassle of cleaning them. And if you live with someone you’re not sexually active, that’s a whole other awkward conversation. But if you do live alone or with a sexual partner, or have enough privacy you can keep one without someone else making a fuss about it, and you’re looking for another option for self care, then might be worth the investment.


  • For guys/tops: Pace yourself, learn some foreplay techniques that can keep your partner aroused when you need to break or slow down, and generally don’t allow yourself to go full bore until you think it’s a good time to cum. A lot of this is really just learning what your partner likes and enjoys, and experimenting to find different ways of doing things. Can they get off from their chest/nipples? Do they their butt being touched, groped, spanked or fingered? Is there a particular way you can grind against them, penetrate them or thrust that keeps you aroused but doesn’t stimulate you, but gets your partner closer to their next climax? If you feel like you’re going to blow too fast, suggest changing positions, use that break to clear your mind some and reset while your hands and mouth keep your partner stimulate and your dick gets a bit of a break.

    Outside of sex with a partner, you can edge/tease yourself to improve your sexual stamina somewhat. If you’re jerking off, don’t get yourself to cum soon as possible, but build up a rhythm and take semi frequent breaks. Staying hydrated and exercising regularly also did wonders for my bedroom stamina.


  • I think there is a lot of overlap but I don’t think every guy who is into cuck porn or wants to be cucked IRL is bisexual.

    For some, yeah it’s an outlet to explore their sexuality and potentially seeking to please multiple people at once, even indirectly.

    For others, they know or just believe they can’t properly sate a partner so will step aside or make room for another who can.

    And that’s not talking about the degrees of voyeuristic and/or humiliation kinks that cuck porn can appeal to. So while every man who wants to be cucked or identifies with a cuck in porn, isn’t necessarily bisexual or have any particular attraction to the bull. For a fair chunk of them, it’s more about the taboo than anything else.











  • Davidchan@lemmynsfw.comtoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldCords
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    1 year ago

    Double live is very bad and the cord becomes a literal short. If you’re lucky a breaker will flip or fuse burn out. If you’re not so lucky you have a cable thats either going to start a fire burning its insulation off and melting itself, or potentially exploding depending on quality and type of cable.






  • Nice strawman. Surely race was the only differing factors in these two cases, and it had nothing to do with with the fact that Kizer traveled 40 miles to shoot her abuser after escaping him months ago (that his convinction failing is the real injustice here) and took a plea-deal to avoid a life sentence for premeditated murder, where as Hughes lived with her abuser, was beaten the night of killing, called the cops, watcher her abuser talk the cops down, beat her again, starved her, raped her, threatened her and her children and burned her school books before she killed him and took her children to the police station to turn herself in.

    But yes please insist these two cases are like for like.