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FiniteBanjo
@feddit.online
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Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: Serial troll
1 day ago
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I'm the father of a FtM 7 year old boy. So we haven't lived through the puberty stage yet, but I've spent a long time doing research and have helped my son do a full social transition. We are trying to officially change his gender and name, but that requires going through a tribunal for us. It sounds like you've got the most important part, just be supportive and accepting. The next important part is to see professional in your area. They will guide you through the process, let you know what services you need to seek out and what the path is for full transition and what issues you might face in your area. I do also think it's worth seriously questioning where this is coming from and making sure this is a legitimate finding of identity and not from some underlying trauma/anxiety that's being confused for gender dysphoria. The rare cases of de-transitioning appear to mostly be from girls going through puberty and having unwanted attention or sexual assault from boys/men that makes them feel uncomfortable in their body. It's easy to see how this kind of thing could lead them to think they have gender dysphoria, when they don't. Especially considering that this is a phase where everyone starts to think more about their identity and sexuality. Having said that, de-transitioning is rare, so this is mostly just a safety check before starting anything that may have permanent consequences and any good professional should help with that.
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ShrimpCurler
@lemmy.dbzer0.com
reason: Well intentioned, but still gatekeeping of trans identity, which is not allowed in this space
2 days ago
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Isabella
@lemmings.world
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: transphobic troll
2 days ago
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Says the furry LOL
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Isabella
@lemmings.world
reason: re-removing restored comment for removal refederation
2 days ago
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Says the furry LOL
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Isabella
@lemmings.world
2 days ago
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Isabella
@lemmings.world
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: transphobic troll
2 days ago
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Ewww trans
reason: transphobic trolling
1 month ago
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cuntboyicus
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
as a mod to the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
1 month ago
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oNevia
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
as a mod to the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
4 months ago
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jordanlund
@lemmy.world
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: Transphobe
5 months ago
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PoopChute6969
@piefed.social
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: Troll
6 months ago
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maybe trans men would be treated more seriously by trans women if they didn't use straight-up MRA talking points like androphobia. reminds me of cis dudes trying to make themselves the "real" victims of patriarchy. you're oppressed for being trans, not for being a man. therefore the andro in transandrophobia is entirely unnecessary. after misogyny became a popular term due to the feminist movement, men tried making misandry be a real term for experiencing oppression by women. after Black Lives Matter, there were the white people using All Lives Matter as a pro-cop dogwhistle.
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amino
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: Generalising
6 months ago
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trans women control non trans womens spaces too, like arent they moderating all of them on reddit, I remember some mild controversy, the penis leads
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dil
@lemmy.zip
reason: Essentialism. The post is fine, but generalising trans women as "leading by penis" is not on
6 months ago
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This isn't the point of the post, at all, and I'm not trans, but I love you all and want you to live your truth.... But as a straight/cis male/man, _I've_ been called a bitch, and I've been told that I'm bitchy or bitching.... It's really not an exclusively gendered term anymore
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MystikIncarnate
@lemmy.ca
reason: Minimising folks experience
8 months ago
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Amanduh
@lemm.ee
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: Transphobic troll
9 months ago
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jordanlund
@lemmy.world
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
9 months ago
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Boomkop3
@reddthat.com
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: Take your transphobic talking points to another instance
11 months ago
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inv3r5ion
@lemmy.dbzer0.com
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: Gatekeeping
1 year ago
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GluWu
@lemm.ee
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: Unbanned - Comment was a movie quote. Comment remains removed
1 year ago
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Banned
jordanlund
@lemmy.world
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: Transphobia - Came to
[email protected]
, invalidated neopronoun users and posted a Matt Walsh video
1 year ago
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GluWu
@lemm.ee
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: Slurs and insults
1 year ago
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Spiralvortexisalie
@lemmy.world
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: "Jews are the problem"
1 year ago
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Banned
๐ฐ ๐ ๐ฑ ๐ฆ ๐ณ ๐ฆ ๐ฐ ๐ฎ ๐
@yiffit.net
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: Playing victim when told he has to earn allyship
1 year ago
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Banned
Beacon
@fedia.io
from the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
reason: Misogyny
2 years ago
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[CW: transphobia, police brutality] โI canโt die like thisโ: Video shows trans man beaten by deputy during stop
2 years ago
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Would you like to help a girl in need?
reason: Under review
2 years ago
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oNevia
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
as a mod to the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
2 years ago
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cowboycrustation [he/him]
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
as a mod to the community
Transmasc
@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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