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Ok NRA, so they’re saying we don’t have 2nd amendment rights anymore. You’re gonna pull all that right wing funding now, right?

Right?

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Tweeting is not action.

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Executing a man on his knees is totally justified bro.

Fucking DHS lies about this are infuriating.

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What a shameful time to be American.

The “Board of Peace” Plan for Gaza Will Subjugate Palestinians, Journalist Warns ( truthout.org )

As President Donald Trump formally inaugurated his so-called Board of Peace at the World Economic Forum in Davos, Switzerland, on Thursday, his son-in-law Jared Kushner presented his vision of turning the Gaza Strip into an upscale seaside resort with gleaming skyscrapers and entirely new cities. The proposal is said to require...

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No, you see, it’s just a typo. They’re bored of peace.

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Well, I’m calling country music “r-pop” from now on for sure.

Immigration officers assert sweeping power to enter homes without a judge's warrant, memo says ( apnews.com )

Federal immigration officers are asserting sweeping power to forcibly enter people’s homes without a judge’s warrant, according to an internal Immigration and Customs Enforcement memo obtained by The Associated Press, marking a sharp reversal of longstanding guidance meant to respect constitutional limits on government...

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I could absolutely be wrong about this because I’ve never really looked it up, but I thought “duty to retreat” still allowed use of lethal force once there is nowhere left to retreat (for example, once in your own home).

Part of those pesky “inalienable rights”.

Why are programmers so rude to beginners?

I asked a question on a forum about why a command wasn't working. They said I didn't have an interpreter installed on my computer and were making fun of me. I showed them that I had one installed and that wasn't the problem, but they continued to talk sarcastically to me without explaining anything. Only one of them suggested...

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No.

All of the “rules” you’re describing are effectively just gaslighting people who have been bullied into thinking they asked for it. It takes so little effort not to be a dick to people. It’s like the lowest effort thing I can think of.

Asking questions is fine; asking without doing prior research is fine too. Online bullies want others to think you need to have a PhD thesis on the topic before you’re allowed to ask a question and that mindset is ridiculous.

Ask your questions @alina@lemmy.world avatar alina , don’t apologize for it, and just ignore the assholes. It’s totally fine to look for a human connection first, you don’t need that doctorate beforehand.

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I’m glad that I was a beginner before SE. I think it may have pushed me out of my field before I even got started.

Exclusively book learning may have been more difficult in some ways but I’ll take it over SE any day of the week.

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Would you walk into a religious place of worship, a strip club, a gun range, or Costco without at least knowing how to interact with that space?

I wouldn’t walk into a strip club period, but for all of your other examples I would absolutely go to those places to figure out how to interact with them. Frankly, I do not understand why you wouldn’t. Who is more qualified to explain to you how to interact with them than the people you want to interact with?

You’re accusing me of “white knighting” (hello, painfully 2010s virtue signaling catch phrase) for saying that people shouldn’t be shitty to each other. I’ll counter by accusing you of enabling that negative behavior by making excuses for it.

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“Being mean to people is a good thing because it teaches them to [something]” is an indefensible sentiment.

Yes, nobody is entitled to your answer to a question and you’re fine to just not answer any question you don’t want to. Being a dick about it, though, is actively harmful to both the person you’re being a dick to, and the community you’re participating in.

It’s interesting that people defending being a dickhead so frequently fall back to accusations about intelligence. E.g.:

If you want to keep asking questions unintelligently, though…

For a group of people so very concerned with intelligence, I wonder if anyone has taken the time to explain to you the concept of emotional intelligence.

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I’ll take it a step further and say that most of the people I’ve worked with have been amazing. Really just some very enjoyable people to be around.

Something about the field though seems to really attract the super assholes and they’re so assholish that they color the perception of the whole field.

It’s really unfortunate how a very loud, very obnoxious minority can have such an outsized impact.

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Unfortunately, the teams that do suck are also the ones who are constantly hiring.

There couldn’t possibly be any form of causation there though. Nope.

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Hey cool recommendations. I’ll subscribe, maybe I’ll see something in the feed I can help with.

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Ugh, lmgtfy was the absolute worst.

Sending a link to that site was the answer to tell me you’re an asshole without telling me you’re an asshole.

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Knowing that I gave you a laugh is the highlight of my day. Thanks!

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If any of this audio is true it’s way way more damning than I imagined: https://lisevoldeng.substack.com/p/dont-worry-boys-are-hard-to-find

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The rest of the world needs to just embargo us at this point.

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You might even call it his trump card.

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Too bad but not unexpected. I think the game itself had potential; I like the classless concept and there was a “just go out and play” feel that was cool.

The story, however, was… was there a story? I honestly can’t remember one. Also the PvP systems were dumb.

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Oh yay, more tribalism.