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Cake day: June 24th, 2023

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  • Communication is not an option when the man speaks no English and is functionally blind. You can’t mime any thing. You wouldn’t have been able to guess his language either to use a translator app, because it’s not like he was speaking something recognizable to the average American.

    I agree, calling the police is a gamble at best, but so is letting a stranger into your home who is holding a curtain rod. It was not obviously a walking stick with red tape on the end. Unfortunately, as a woman in America, your default is to be wary if not afraid of men.

    This situation just sucks for everyone involved, and is a downright tragedy for the man. He was abused by the authorities, not the random woman whose porch he ended up on.






  • My nephew was also in the nicu for three months, and he cost a million dollars. Also picked up by Medicaid. As much as I hate the US Healthcare system, I will be forever grateful to the united states of America for providing life to my nephew when in any other time or situation he would have just died immediately. He is and continues to be a miracle, a very special, bright boy who just scored a goal for his soccer team this weekend for the first time.







  • My husband bought me chocolate this month (as he does every month with the groceries) but this month rationed it into little valentine bags.

    I wrote out 102 reasons I love him on colorful scraps of paper and rolled them up into jars.

    I think it’s so narrow minded to say you don’t celebrate valentines because it’s too capitalistic. Aren’t you looking for any excuse to shower your partner with love? Plus valentines can be so grade school and still so sweet! It’s an excuse to let out your inner child and make a craft or hand drawn card/ love letter. I baked heart shaped cookies and dyed some frosting pink!

    Neither of us shelled out big money, but you can bet I wore pink and red a couple times this week. It’s fun to like stuff! It’s the best part of being human!







  • When you look at the damage French protests cause vs the violence they incite in cops, it’s relatively safe compared to the violence us cops perpetrate in retribution to completely peaceful protests in the us, or even just violence top bystanders in the US. Add in that French protests actually accomplish something and the risk benefit calculations are so totally different.



  • Yeah, I do think women women on average put more effort into being physically attractive to men (certainly more time on average). I’m sure it’s controversial to say but on a basic 1-10 scale my gay friends rank higher on average than do my straight buddies, and I think that’s about effort, not nature.

    I think hair, makeup,and clothes can change your base rank a lot but average women take advantage of this way more than average men while celebrity men and women both take full advantage so the 10 ranking is set just as high for both genders, but higher rankings are more attainable for “regular” women.

    So maybe women aren’t so much pickier as it is that neither gender exists as a perfect bell curve in our natural state compared to 10s and a lot of women’s beauty is “unnatural” raising our ratings.

    My husband and I are both pretty low key on attractiveness effort normally but the difference between me on an average Saturday and me attending a wedding is way bigger than his difference.