

You need to internalize the idea that it’s not fair of anyone to expect yoi to do more than be a compassionate listener. Be firm about not taking on an intermediary/messenger role.
Try saying things like “You seem to be hesitant about speaking your mind to Mom, what do you think will happen if you tell her what you need?” “What’s your plan to solve this if you don’t feel like you can express your feelings to her?”
Healthy venting is solution-oriented. You’re under no obligation to entertain endless circular whining and fake helplessness from adults.











I don’t know effective change.org petitions are beyond raising awareness, but there’s a petition to fire the brownshirt wannabe police chief.