• Evil Kitty@europe.pub
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    19 days ago

    My gender is dependent on who I am sleeping with currently, when with men I am a man and when with women I am a woman when with non binary people I am non binary. I am planning on maximazing my gayness. Currently I am agender.

  • STUNT_GRANNY@lemmy.world
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    19 days ago

    I mean, saying “I’m gay” takes less than half the syllables of “I’m bisexual”, I prefer the former whenever I’m pressed for time.

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      18 days ago

      Do people not just shorten it to “I’m bi”? I don’t think I’ve ever encountered anyone who didn’t know what I was talking about.

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        18 days ago

        That’s a fair point for sure, but there’s also just something about the way saying “gay” feels, versus “bi”. Not necessarily an emotional impact so much as, I guess, mouth feel?

    • antsu@discuss.tchncs.de
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      18 days ago

      Also, ruins the joke “hi bisexual, I’m dad”. It doesn’t roll off the tongue as nicely as the “hi gay, I’m dad”.

  • djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    18 days ago

    in my experience, nobody ever says anything when I’m dating a woman, so my queerness is only ever brought up if I’m single or dating a man. When I’m in a gay relationship, it’s just easier to say I’m gay. It’s like the only time I can be bisexual is when I’m single, and honestly I try to avoid that state as much as possible.

  • Bytemeister@lemmy.world
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    18 days ago

    Nothing wrong with that. My wife is “straight” a lot for someone who is technically pansexual.