

but my friend corrected me and said i meant “people who get pregnant”, because men (like trans men but still men) can get pregnant
I think the correct response is to ask that friend why are they trying to pivot the discussion from women abortion. Was she trying to rail you up? Discourage your argument or position by implying you’re not good enough?
Honestly, she sounds like she preemptively gets offended on other people behalf, or like someone who weaponizes “being more PC than you”.
Or she knows a pregnant man (I think the stats were about 100 a year get pregnant, most of them immediately go to a clinic) personally and decided it’s the perfect time to use that fact to win the discussion? Or virtue signaling? I mean I’m assuming something is wrong with her, because that situation is random and unexpected.





I highly recommend checking out LGBT organizations in your area, some of them have hobby clubs and meetups and whatnots (if there’s none in your local area try calling one anyway, maybe there are people interested in being online friends).
The question you asked screams lack of confidence and honestly the best cure would be to add some queer friends.
Of course it’s okay to say “when I was a little boy”. Why wouldn’t it be? Did someone told you it’s not okay to say that? Who was it?