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oftheair

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pronouns: cele/celes

Plural. This is why we use we. Trans{gender and species}.

We aren’t human, thank you!

We are also ace- and aro- spec, so don’t direct sexual or romantic things at us.

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That's because it's only available in like one country, afawa.

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It means as far as we're aware.

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Because not many businesses/countries have signed up to it. We said "available" when we perhaps should have said "used" but you hopefully understand us better now.

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hey ladies (and theybies)

We think fembies is a better term, as we tink it's weird to define someone or somemany by a pronoun rather than where they sit on a aesthetic or gender spectrum.

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Credit: Cathy Wilcox ...

Cartoon of six young girls in front, and shadows of grown men behind them, their hands on the girls' shoulders. The caption at the top reads: [ redacted ]. While the girls are completely coloured in, the shadows are just black, except for the right-hand of the furthest right man, resting it on the shoulder of the girl second from right, while his left rests on that of the girl furthest right.
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We also count six.

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Awesome! Thanks 🙂

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Yep, that and their transphobia in the past makes us not want to see shit like that.

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We understand and accept that it's difficult. Just wanted to make you aware as it disgusted us viscerally after the things they've said and done.

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Oh, We do sometimes. We just find the interface here more familiar for now. We should switch over more, even though we disagree with some of the piefed dev's choices in the code.

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Any of these vegan?

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Awesome! Thanks so much!

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No, research suggests that mentally ill people are more likely to be the victims of people like this rather than the perpetrators. This person is likely fine mentally.

We understand the desire to separate one/many's self/selves from people like this but that's just playing right into their hands.

Truth is anybody can become like this, and pretending otherwise is not going to keep it from happening.

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Not all asexuals are sex repulsed, it just means not being sexually attracted to others either all the time or some of the time (unless preconditions are met in the case of demisexuals or grey-asexuals). Us ace-spec people can and do have sex if we aren't always repulsed, just not always for attraction reasons.

Hope this makes sense and helps!

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sexually attracted to everyone around them above some personally maintained arbitrary threshold of determining attractiveness??

From what we understand allosexuals (people who are not ace-spec) are not in fact attracted to everyone :). Maybe many people, but not all the people and not always.

However, even if they were that's not a bad thing, as long as it's consensual and respectful :)

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Sure, we are happy to help :)

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Glad we could help!

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Oh yes, absolutely. We were aware of AVEN since we are ace-spec but not this page specifically. Thanks so much for sharing!

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Or cute people in the case of nonbinary people.

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sigh

Control: Resonant (2026, studio Remedy Entertainment) ( www.youtube.com )

On Thursday at The Game Awards, the developer revealed Control Resonant, a sequel to the first game that will make major changes to the formula, starting with a new main character and an "action-RPG-oriented direction." This time, players will control Dylan Faden, the younger brother of Jesse Faden, the original protagonist of ...

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No more Jesse? No thanks.

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We meant playing as her.

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What does oversexualizing mean?

Like what does it look like and how do you do it?

We genuinely don't understand.

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Oh, that makes sense. Thanks for explaining! 🙂

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I saw mommy fucking Santa Claus

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It is an HD version of the shocked pikachu meme. Pikachu is a pokémon with a mostly yellow body, they have two red cheeks and brown eyes, with a little brown nose, as well as brown tips on the top of their ears. Pikachu has their mouth open, looking shocked, inside their mouth is pink, outlined by brown. Behind them is, presumably, their trainer wearing brown pants.

Image description: It is an HD version of the shocked pikachu meme. Pikachu is a pokémon with a mostly yellow body, they have two red cheeks and brown eyes, with a little brown nose, as well as brown tips on the top of their ears. Pikachu has their mouth open, looking shocked, inside their mouth is pink, outlined by brown. Behind them is, presumably, their trainer wearing brown pants.

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A large number of those girls are borderline sociopaths, even murderers.

Good news, there is research showing even those which are ableistly called 'sociopaths' (which isn't a real thing), and murders can be helped to not behave in harmful ways any more.

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Yes, ASPD is the correct term and we do wish people would stop using the 'scary' and incorrect wording sociopathy and psychopathy, since that isn't how they're defined anywhere officially as far as we're aware.

Yeah, we've done some research recently and have a lot of empathy, sympathy, care and understanding for those who are diagnosed with ASPD. Thank you for explaining how it effects you though.

Yes, we agree, thanks for backing us up :).

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Sociopathy and psychopathy are incorrect terms for ASPD, they're meant to provoke fear. That was our only point really.

As for the rest of what you said, we're well aware of a lot of it as it's a special interest of ours (behaviour) and we've met people who have various 'cluster B' diagnoses and always did our best to understand them and work with them.

Though A lot of how you define/explain ASPD is incorrect, just so you know.

We weren't really claiming anything about whether it's ableist or not about choosing to have a relationship with someone who is diagnosed with 'cluster b' diagnoses or not.

Still, thanks for sharing your experience with us and we hope the treatment goes well.

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<Insert they're the same picture image here>

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Agreed.

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We agree with you, we're vegans and hate that a lot of things we have to use is basically plastic.

Maybe bioplastics are better, but we don't know. We just wish there were environmentally sustainable alternatives.

"Why does Valve allows this?": Indie dev laments losing Overwhelmingly Positive Steam review score to off-topic rant, replies "please never, ever play any of our games" ( www.gamesradar.com )

As Rose shared on Bluesky, Little Rocket Lab "had an Overwhelmingly Positive score on Steam, then these two reviews rolled in." (From the score averages on Steam, I gather this was specifically the game's recent review score.) The negative reviews in question complain of a "woke game" that "also has Muslims," and claim there's ...

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They won't, they do not care. They even fired mods for no good reason.

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Still none of the safety features that users and creators have been asking for for a long time such as proper blocking and approved follow requests.

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Warning this is disgusting and loud

Why Girls Don't Fart originally by College Humor
1 minute and 28 seconds
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QDE9SXAnsJo

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Yes, which is why we were specifically talking about ourselves.

If you aren't familiar with relationship anarchy then here: https://relationship-anarchy.com/

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Yes and no. There's polyfidelity which means:

"Polyfidelity is a type of non-monogamous relationship in which all members are recognized as equivalent to the other partners and comply to restrict sexual and romantic relationship activities to exclusively only other members within the group."

We're not into that type of relationship personally and prefer it unrestricted/non-exclusive. That is where we were drawing our definition of fidelity from in this case. Apologies for the confusion.

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We don't think we implied anything about the time we or anybody else who is polyamorous or relationship anarchist likes to be with others.

We have no deisre to give up on our current relationships of that kind, just we have more than one of them.

Edit: Nor did we imply how 'bonded' we are to any of them.

Edit 2: It seems not all penguins are bonded for life either: https://www.sciencealert.com/shock-discovery-reveals-penguins-dont-mate-for-life-after-all

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sighs and pulls out the guillotine.

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Excellent work, thanks!

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No, we mean the website that is linked is marked as for sale.

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We think that most folks in fedi don't particularly care for facebook, nor alternatives for it. We might be incorrect and a dedicated app might change that, but that's the feeling we get for now.

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Could you fix it in the top level post please?

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Sure. Might be worth adding to the top level post also.

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Hi Vi- Grail. Nice to see You around.

oftheair OP Mod ,
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Sure, we've seen You around before.

Oh, thank You so much!