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  • Septimaeus@infosec.pubto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonebi rule
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    19 hours ago

    Not erasure; it’s cool. At least, it’s not a deliberate act of self-erasure IME.

    Here’s a few of the many reasons bi people sometimes call themselves “gay:”

    1. Simplicity: lots of people lack a mentally distinct category for bi and think of it as a subset of gay, so if you’re bi you learn to sometimes lean into it just to save time.
    2. The bi-cycle: it’s not unusual for bi folk to experience predominantly same-sex attraction for a while. So they might identify more often as gay for that time, especially if they’re in a same sex relationship.
    3. Brand recognition: bi doesn’t have the history that gay does in public discourse. We were usually just called gay. I’ve never heard a pundit talk about “the bi agenda” on daytime television, for example. So gay is sometimes preferred when we’re connecting with that lived experience.

    Hope that helps ;)







  • My expectations about this story, given the headline, were all hilariously wrong.

    First, it was not a random parishioner, but the original, now 83-year-old artist.

    Next, it was not vandalism. The Vatican demanded the face be scrubbed off the fresco (edit: swype thought I meant the drink).

    Next, it was not just an angry local rabble’s mistaken identity. The artist admitted it was her face.

    Finally, the politician is still in office, and actually commented on it, joke-flirt reciprocating that she was no angel.