Yeah I’m a real person, the name is just a reference to getting banned on Reddit many times, and then getting banned immediately across several discuss.online communities for hurting a mod’s feelings. I guess if it’s going to happen, might as well ask for it.

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  • They’ve done studies showing people who don’t get physical touch often (or ever) spend more time in the shower, and like it hotter.

    I think about that a lot. Been over a year since I had sex, and almost a year since I had full body contact with someone. I think I’m not alone in that these days.




  • Is it possible, being as how snow removal is the city’s responsibility, they’re actually complaining about that? If snow removal isn’t done in a timely manner, slush does indeed form and just moves around, not melting much.

    Quickly reading the article suggests that’s the actual complaint.

    I like the Guardian and Mamdani but come on here. Let’s focus on whether or not that complaint is accurate, and whether he’s had any chance to impact the city’s snow removal plans, which are generally done well in advance by someone other than the mayor.


  • Doc offices, urgent cares, etc have these little blue plastic bags with a cardboard collar around them, just big enough to go around the outside of your mouth. I call them yack sacks. Grab a few of these the next time you see a dispenser on the wall, keep them in your nightstand, glovebox, etc. They come in very handy.


  • It’s trivially easy to activate the sensor by putting your finger on the right part of the seat, on mine you are aware when it happens because there’s a beep. I am terrified of the moment my 3yo figures out where this spot is, because the panel of interesting buttons will suddenly do something, and that something will be Terrible.






  • Don’t give up. I run a nonprofit for queer men in the South, where you wouldn’t expect one. We’ve picked up a couple of femboys who both thought they wouldn’t fit in, and everyone accepted them immediately, and they met each other, and now they have femboy friends. Even in a small conservative state where there’s no femboy culture.

    Unfortunately without orgs like ours I think Grindr and the like are the best option and those aren’t fun places for anyone, but they can still work, you just have to ignore a lot of shit.

    PS if you’re a queer man (including femboys) who wants to see something like this in your area, let me know, we are trying to find the right people to start satellite chapters. We have a working model, just needs a bit of time investment each week to get running.



  • Security issues aside, HAVING the idea is the hardest part, much harder than coding an app. If you have a genuinely good idea, it’s pretty easy to find someone to help build it, because that person also wants in on a cash-cow. Lack of ideas is the bigger problem with launching apps today, which a million vibe coders have realized.


  • BanMe@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldHated homework, hating WFH
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    More importantly, homework teaches responsibility and self-accountability as well as time management. I hated it, I got through school without ever doing it, and I had to learn these things later on to my own detriment. But I had massive problems with authority caused by emotional incest from my mother, so it took a lot of work to re-parent myself into a successful person who could follow rules and realize they were sometimes there to help me.