Oh, and a consistent exercise routine helps a ton too. And so does keeping a consistent sleep schedule. And so does minimizing stress. And minimizing shame regarding your symptoms.
I had an acquaintance who told me, “if a woman’s hitting me, they get three free punches before I start punching back”. Dude was trying hard to thread the needle between “a man should never hit a woman” and “my mom used to beat the shit out of me” and this is the garbled thing that fell out.
Not saying every man who’s obsessed about the situations in which he’s “allowed” to hit a woman was beat by their mom. I’ve met plenty who to my knowledge weren’t. Just saying it’s a self-imposed patriarchal rule that results in misdirected resentment regarding the rule
No need to self flagellate. It’s not great to get so caught up in petty infighting that you lose sight of actual humanity of the topics you’re talking about. And also, it’s a shitposting forum that doesn’t need to be taken too seriously. Both are true at the same time. I hope you take some time detached from this to collect yourself because it seems you’re overly tuned into this and that’s a hard place to be in.
As an enby who’s played around with both masculine and feminine pronouns on the lemmyverse, there’s a more subtle strain as well. People assuming you don’t know things or explaining things to you excessively. Getting more DMs. And a kind of centering of cis men that still happens even in more feminist and trans-inclusive spaces within threads that cover certain topics.
In turn, a liberal will use it to criticize the same anarchist for opposing NATO
This used to happen to me all the time. I would start talking about imperialism and I’d get called a tankie and told to fuck off. No longer consider myself an anarchist but still.
In healing from my own ADHD-related trauma, I’ve learned that “I’m not interested” is often the actual reason and that there are coping strategies for making this the case.
In parenting my ADHD-riddled children, I’ve realized that “I’m not interested” is also not a panacea and sometimes no amount of coping will make you interested in certain things
Came here to say this. It’s the pinned comment on his stream explaining it, which I guess shows you how much this has blown up
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It is a collar with an airtag and a vibration motor, that is used to help with recall when she's free-roaming as she's an off-leash trained dog. It flashes red when the vibration is used. That didn't happen in the clip. It has no shock component.
Can someone more experienced in self hosting explain why I would wanted a dedicated prosumer NAS over just a regular tower with a bunch of drives? I understand why someone working at a data center might want a rack mount NAS full of drives. But the desktop NAS models you see on like Newegg don’t immediately strike me as special.
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Oh, and a consistent exercise routine helps a ton too. And so does keeping a consistent sleep schedule. And so does minimizing stress. And minimizing shame regarding your symptoms.