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Cake day: June 30th, 2025

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  • I know people involved in some of these unions. They still fight for federal workers and are successful at times in assisting them with so many other things. They negotiate contracts (like collective bargaining agreements) and seek more fair workplace practices, they represent workers in disputes, they scrutinize HR and administrative practices, and they bring lawsuits in federal courts.

    Yes, they don’t have the teeth of large strikes, but it’s still helping them in the sense of banding together and pooling resources. Of course, this fucking piece of shit administration has just unilaterally taken away a lot of things and exposed a lot of the flaws in the system. From what I know, morale is in the shitter for most normal, everyday, civilian federal workers who simply wanted to provide a good public service and pay their bills.

    Note that I think it being illegal to strike is fundamentally un-constitutional and un-American. But hey, not much of the U.S. is how we feel it should be.









  • Coming from a similar background, just know, you deserve your own security, including mentally. You did nothing wrong. You are enough. And most importantly, the good times don’t mean the bad abusive times are okay. Abuse can be physical, verbal, emotional, mental, and lots of blame, shame, and neglect can be abuse.

    Treating someone okay sometimes doesn’t justify treating them badly. It is your parents responsibility to raise you too. You had no choice in the matter. It’s okay to explain the story to you, but not to expect you to essentially worship what they did. They chose to have a baby, they need to raise you. There’s no gold medals for doing that expectation aside from the joy of seeing your child become a wonderful human.

    Regarding the abuse, including the confusing instability of behavior towards you, don’t let it turn into a bad habit where you constantly feel the need to cling to someone. The abuse and neglect and confusion can make relationships difficult, and may cause you to overthink them later in life and worry about things that harm your future relationships.

    Try to center yourself and meditate on how you feel, allow your thoughts time they need to process, and try to truly feel how your body feels.

    Wish you the best. Hang in there.